Ok. So you think it is unsanitary to pull down your bra a bit and reveal a nipple for 2 seconds. I don’t even know what to say about that. You should talk to a doctor or midwife to find out if that’s a reasonable thing to be concerned about. I would love more breastfeeding spaces because honestly I do not breastfeed…

why “should” they? As a woman and a mother, I can tell you my baby cries for milk at random times I cannot plan for. Would you rather hear screaming or see 1/4 of my tit? What’s it to you ? It’s a legal protected right. Women don’t have many of those these days. Grow up.

One of his brothers ? His brother in law ? Brendan’s brother ? Her broher ? Her ex? Random psycho?

My favorite glimpse into this mans brain was when he described Teresa as a “little girl — oops! I mean woman.”

I don't get how comments like this are always taken out of the grays. I wouldn't take a anal fissure out of the grays personally but I am no god.

If you bought the Duggars—- then yeah this isn't the show for you.

As a rule, intelligent people are offended by ignorance. If you are too slow to understand a basic concept such as what is being discussed here, please see yourself out.

Get some water and get some rest.

Oh I don’t care what your opinion on the word “ideal” is. I was addressing the idea that you seem to think that women have it so easy — we look like barbies and have bad personalities and that’s a-ok! Meanwhile poor men are born ugly. Women WORK to look the way they do, because that’s what we are told to do from…

That would be awesome but I think changing the world starts with changing the way we talk about these issues ... How else do we change it ??

No. Not necessarily. Not if the term comes from a positive place as opposed to a shaming place. If what you were saying was true, then we would never need to revise our language. We could use terms like “retard” or “homo” with abandon because hey, all words hurt eventually !!!

The very fact that most women own like 2 pairs of spanx plus multiple push up bras etc just proves that it is not equal. How many men own shape wear ??? Certainly some but nowhere NEAR the amount of women that do .

That’s* because not hers because.

You do realize hers because women slave and starve to fit that ideal and undergo Breast and butt augs, correct? They weren’t born that way. They also weren’t born hairless or with glowy skin and long lashes (most of us). But they slave to fit that ideal because society has told us our value lies solely with our…

I agree. And I do believe the fact this is historically a woman’s job contributes to people viewing it as unimportant or mindless, as is so often the case with “women’s work.”

No I have seen the episode. Why are you getting so angry? I’m trying to explain to you why a phrase you used innocently is offensive to rape victims and detrimental to their recovery. You can accept or reject that knowledge. But it doesn’t invalidate that it exists. I thought you might like to not unintentionally say…

You can reject it. Nor am I discussing the show really ... I don’t have enough knowledge of it to do so. I am discussing the way we talk about rape and rape victims in real life —- innocence stolen, damaged goods, forever changed, etc.

FYI - “her innocence stolen from her” is a line of thinking many rape victims and allies abhor. The only person who lost any innocence in that scene was the rapist, if he had any to begin with.

Are we still using the term “bottle blonde”? How utterly quaint

Actually a woman can get Botox and embrace aging at the same time -