Wait, so do you always insist on being on bottom, or do you expect women to struggle to breathe with 180 lbs. on top of them? Or is your problem that women don’t hold themselves up at all while on top and just sort of sprawl on top of you?

Do a push up, brosef.

And think of the women! I’m 125lbs and if we end up in missionary it doesn’t matter if the guy is 150lbs or 180+lbs; if he ends up collapsing on top of me after orgasming then it’s temporarily uncomfortable (until he or I move) but somehow I manage! Imagine that. I can handle it! And he can’t?

If you are truly 6’2” and 180lbs, you can fucking handle it, bro.

I get the social issues with the stigma of it, I just don’t agree with it in the personal sense. But saying you don’t date black people is far different from saying you don’t date fat people; to me, in this sense, fat people are in the same category as hairy men/big butted women/etc. It’s a physical characteristic,…

Why does not wanting to fuck a fat person have to be for reasons like you “don’t want the stigma to rub off on you,” or because you don’t like your own body, or because the media says it’s “not cool”? There is nothing wrong with not wanting to bang a fat person because you simply aren’t attracted to fat people, or…

I’d also add that a lot of the fat guys she sleeps with would probably not sleep with women who are truly fat, b/c as with so many things, men are really big hypocrites about that. She’s their big score, and they are her kind of fetish, b/c the way she describes them is just...

Thank god. Hey fatties! You’ve been deemed fuckable by this lady and therefore a person of worth! Congratulations!

I should probably admit right now that I am fat myself. I’m barely 5′1″ and 135 pounds and wear a size 6 and a 34DD

As this author thinks of herself as “fat” when she is clearly not (those measurements read to me more like curvy — not skinny but certainly not fat by normal standards, maybe just 5 pounds or so above ideal BMI, for what that’s worth), then I wonder if some of the “fat” folks she fucks aren’t actually fat in the true…

Where the hell have you been? St. Vincent has been dating Cara Delevingne for months now. Carrie and St. Vincent broke up last July (2o14).

It is probably the other way around - women who identify as straight know they have to swallow all the bullshit patriarchal pressure about looks in order to find a partner, and are therefore more conventionally attractive.

How in the world has science found an objective measure of attractiveness?

Opposite true for men, it seems!

The findings of this study seem to be kind of a cousin to the results of a study which determined that conventionally attractive and feminine women are most likely to identify as politically conservative and/or Republican. When one fits the ideals of a particular group, one is less likely to examine and find any…

That’s not really what they’re saying. They’re saying that straight-identified women who have success with men may be more likely to never explore the possibility that they might also be attracted to women. They’re SAYING that a lot of straight people may just not know they aren’t straight because they haven’t tried…

“Women who are initially successful in partnering with men, as is more traditionally expected, may never explore their attraction to other women.