You can’t say that word, white people.

Batten the hatches, incoming white feminist swarm. Set condition Becky throughout the blog.

Strong disagree. I believe Ta-Nehisi Coates pointed this out recently. It is really really easy to not sing along to that word. Like super easy. While black people have to constantly police what they say at the risk of being seen as angry or hostile or whatever.

I think the song gave them an excuse to yell a word they wanted to yell.

There’s something satisfying knowing that every well known media and political figure who ever harassed women (or men) is having a hard time sleeping because they don’t know If they’re next.

I think you bring up a good point, and no, I don’t think it’s inherently wrong to believe the men you love. However, if you’re a public figure like Lena, and you feel the need to release a statement that the victim is lying, even though you have no way of actually knowing what happened, that’s where you cross a line.

Maybe by staying quiet until She had all the facts? All they basically did was make the writer’s situation even worse by inserting themselves into the story.

do you have to take everything soooo damn serious??

We can ban them from USA too, it’s ok.

let’s play Spot The Defensive Sex Offender In The Comments.

If a guy honestly cannot finish without a condom due to a lack of sensation, he should be asking for a handjob after sex. Pressuring someone into unsafe sex is always, always, always an asshole move. Without fail. Every single time. Period. Yes, even you in the back.

I agree with you.

Yes!! Excellent points: we seem to have lost any latitude for people who sincerely are coming to terms with ingrained conditioning and who are vowing to do better.

That would be an excellent way to handle the situation, indeed. Neutral direct confrontation is so much better than eternal guesswork.

We’ve all internalized patriarchy to some extent. I appreciate it when anyone is striving to recognize it in themselves and repair it. People are at different points in their own progression on this endless task of introspection and self-correction. He could do a lot more but there are many who do less.

I can’t put my finger on it. But it feels weird that Jon is being held to this standard. It kinda reminds me of those interviews with people who know or were close to like, famous serial killers, “He seemed like such a nice guy I’d never have known.” Hollywood is so small, and yet, how close are these people’s…

In the clip above, Stewart is asked about how he reacted to the revelations and C.K.’s admittance of guilt, and says he was “stunned.”

I guess as who I am, I’m not allowed to have a nervous breakdown, ever.

Meanwhile actresses are labelled too difficult to work with if they won’t fuck you.