I helped so many people move, and went to their painting parties...I had one friend help me paint the last time I moved. Now I “have a conflict” when they ask for my help....

Don’t ever move during a hurricane, especially not a Cat 3 hurricane.

There are worse things than being alone, and you realized that and got out. Hugs to you and take care of yourself while you figure out your next steps.

Hugs, and good luck with the job search

Are you doing any weight training? It could be that the scale hasn’t budged because muscle weighs more than fat, but has less mass.

glad your kitty is better. Thanks for the shelter update, too

hugs to you and Samwise.

Yay! for self-care. Hugs to you to get you through next week.

so sorry for your loss. hugs

I would happily attend any puppy showers (and avoid baby showers) for the rest of my life!

Depending on your income bracket, there are tax breaks for married couples (at least there were, but I don;t know what survived Trump’s tax plan).

Only if he keeps all of his calendars from high school and screams “I love beer!”

well, those are definitely pluses!

that might be grounds for divorce...I guess it’s a good thing I’m not married!

I watched 5 episodes in a row last week instead of actually decluttering, can I get partial credit?

One tip that helps is the “one in, one out” rule: if you buy a new item of clothing, get rid of an old one. Another tip is clean the kitchen sink each night and to put away dishes in the dish rack (and dishwasher, if you have one) each night so that you have room for dirty dishes (or drying dishes) for the next day.…

wow, he sounds like he’s not even a good room mate...Hope you can figure out the finances to leave / ask him to leave

I had to learn this the hard way...

give yourself the time you need to figure out what feel, and what you want to do about it.

Very sorry for your loss.