I never assume that someone wants to touch me that much that I would refuse a handshake and hug instead. I always extend a hand. One time I extended a hand to an female acquaintance and she said “you think because I’m gay, I’m one of the bros, you won’t hug me?” *Shrug*

Wypipo doesn’t bother me and it’s a funny sounding word. I also believe context determines the degree of harm (punching up versus salting the wound), but it’s still arguably wrong in principle to generalize/stereotype. Not a big deal. There are plenty of behaviors that are right or acceptable now that I don’t think…

It’s hard to identify a complete argument in a series of equally angry reactions to other people’s comments. “Don’t cut up other people’s genitals without their informed consent” is the best you’ve given anyone.