This is such a ridiculous comment that I see over and over again no matter the subject matter: Anyone pointing out why they don’t like something or why it doesn’t work is branded “outrage,” liberals are accused of making it their “hill to die on,” and then scolded for making the Orange Ones act the way they do. I call…

Lol, treating outrage like it’s new, treating Jezebel like the vanguard of the left getting everybody riled up, AND blaming the right’s outrage on the left as if they haven’t been burning crosses for years is hilarious. I’d like a sip of whatever you’re drinking. But just a sip. I don’t want to go blind.

Counterpoint: The reason Trump and his supporters continue to shit all over us is because that is what they do.

Most accounts say he was also too drunk to consent. Therefore, if it’s sexual assault, either they’re both guilty or both innocent. It can’t be one or the other. Hence why she would avoid trying to tag him with sexual assault.

Thank you. As a former blackout drinker, seeing something like that on video where you’re “there, but not really there” sounds absolutely horrific. I feel for both of them at this point (without knowing more about what actually happened) and believe her when she said she feels she was violated. The thing about…

Her drunkness makes her enjoyment at the time or consent irrelevant. You could argue based on who made moves that she is the rapist or that they both raped each other, but clearly the sex wasn’t consensual.

I got my butthole bleached once because I was paranoid that my bf (now husband) was grossed out by its naturally dark color. I didn’t tell him I did it and he never seemed to notice. A couple years later we were joking around with some friends at a dinner and I brought up that I’d had my b-hole bleached and my bf was…

I second this. Also, as a woman with “a butt of a fuller variety”, I still assume that a man can see my butthole during doggystyle. Do I care? No. Does he care? I don’t care if he does. I’ve never had complaints either way.

I’d like to interject that if you’re aiming at quality doggy style some spreading of the cheeks is desirable (ahem). Then everything would be on display, but really, who cares? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ 

I do assume she was conscious, because that’s what all the info before this post said. I do assume it was not violent, because I believe that bystanders would have intervened if it was; we know there were producers there and they know that violent rape isn’t what viewers of Bachelor in Paradise would want to see.

much like children, buttholes should be seen, yet not heard.

You know what seems like a terrible idea? Encouraging quickly and unnaturally formed physical relationships in a heightened and contrived atmosphere for the purposes of entertainment. When you describe what these shows actually are, in abstract terms, you see how awful they are.

From everything I’ve read about it, is he was also overly intoxicated. There’s a whole conversation going on right now about who’s at fault if both parties are that drunk. I think going after the production company is not only safest but I’m sure he’ll probably do the same when it’s all said and done.

I mean, there’s obviously a line - say one person was drunk and the other was literally unconscious - we can put fault on the drunk party for continuing sexual activity on a person who is non-responsive.

I think there are certain times in life where that’s more common than not. Like when everyone has young kids, or have ailing parents who need care, or people start hitting the wall at work and decide to go back to school...

Here ... on Jezebel. :)

I feel like my husband and I are always like “who are our friends?” “oh right no one”.

Police shootings of black people are lynching 2.0.

after a witness identified him as one of three men who had stolen her cell phone in a Walmart parking lot.

Okay but can we also talk about him getting a mandatory sentence of 19 years for stealing a cell phone? Like in what world is that a proportional punishment?