No, really?

I have scrolled through many a comment and many of them either fall in the mom is controlling or daughter is ungrateful camp.

I see your point. However, I get so much sadistic pleasure from viciously rejecting all the shitty sexist boys that tried to get into my pants by making me feel bad about myself or felt the need to shut me or other women down.

I work as a part-time caterer for a small business that does a lot of work with a particular non-majority religious community in Wisconsin. Anyway, we were catering a party for the daughter of some big shot family and Paul Fucking Ryan was there manspreading like a champ on one the few available places to sit eating…

So I have been sexually harrassed at every job I’ve ever had (except for my last job where all of the employees were women). Granted I am fairly young and haven’t had a ton of job experience but Goddamnn.

1 in 3 and that’s just the ones we know about. Then there is all other shit like the time someone groped me on the bus or the men that shouted disgusting things at me and followed me several blocks in a city I didn’t know. Or all of the men that have made me feel a little less safe by saying sexually aggressive things…

What you are saying is true. I personally have never been raped but I have been followed and groped multiple times. A lot of the women I know in the US have felt threatened by strangers in public. I am not very physically strong so some of the more traditional self defense tools wouldn’t do me much good so I think…

I salute you for the bit about not losing respect for women and avoiding the PUA scene.

I think you need to examine the type of women you are pursuing because I wonder if your expectations aren’t a little high. Having a successful career doesn’t entitle you to a stream of hot 20 year-olds unless you are a media mogul or venture capitalist or whatever. I would like to think that most women out there are…

So my boyfriend has a tongue tie that makes it so he can’t stick his tongue at all. I can’t fathom why his parents didn’t address that when he was a baby and it was an easy fix but whatever. Anyway the oral sex is just meh because of that. So he doesn’t go down on me and he has never asked for blowjobs and I am good…

...I do this. I absolutely move my shit over before there aren’t any more empty rows (2 empty seats next to each other). I have had some creepy shit happen to me on busses and I like to limit people’s access to my personal space for as long as possible.

This week I made:

Eh. I think the custom Flw’s fetch more money. Frank Lloyd Wright buildings are notoriously hard to maintain and not built to last and I wonder if there isn’t some structural problem with the house affecting its value. Madison has quite a few FLW houses and I’m always surprised how reasonably priced they are...it’s…

It does seem low for the neighborhood, honestly. Walker is a tool but the real estate market is booming in Madison right now, there are more houses then buyers and any houses that are reasonably priced are snatched off the market in days. My guess would be that there are some big problems with the house they didn’t…

You are wise.

I haven’t asked my fiance if he will take my name because he shares the very common first name with my estranged father. That would be too much for me. Ugh, NOPE, NO THANK YOU.

My engagement ring is coming today! I didn’t want a big-ass princess-cut diamond, so we went with this vintage sapphire.

I had that too. I decided it was all good because my S.O. cleans up every time I destroy the kitchen. I am drooling over your stove: double ovens, so many burners, niceee.

People have told me that I am “not like those other only-children” and I think it’s ridiculous. Like, do you assume that I had two parents who had nothing else to do but cater to my every whim? Because really, between my dad abandoning me and my mom working 3 jobs to support us, it truly was all about me! I know kind…

People also tell me that I am a “different” only-child. As if that had any bearing on how I was raised! It’s not how many you have, but what values you have and how you impart them to your offspring. I know several self-involved and selfish people and they all have different numbers of siblings-from none to four.