May I ask which neighborhood that is? I'm guessing not on long island- maybe near Ithaca? Unless NYC neighborhood? And who did that survey? Why don't you go back?

What’s up with Nathan, though? Dudes ain’t shit. How could he ghost? Also 10,000 gold stars to the writers for making him not have his VM set up. I LoL’d.

Watch him hop the antivaxxer bandwagon when his kid has autism

I’m 1/2 of an interracial couple and read everything i can to prepare me for what my child will experience. That being said I had an experience like yours once: we were visiting a town on long island and by happenstance ran into my old friend who had married a white woman. They were eating lunch at an outdoor cafe.…

Thank you for sharing this and saying this. We all know how to survive. Our survival sense is primal. Unfortunately, not drawing attention to his predatory advances probably saved you from him AND from unhelpful law enforcement etc. Acts to ensure survival are not complicity.

This 300 pound shit bag could have killed her with his pinky.  She did the smart thing because she survived.  Don’t shame survivors for how they choose to survive. 

Yeah, thank you! Like, she is trying to make a living! She has to deal with this for her job! Is she supposed to draft her resignation letter right there on the spot? Run screaming (as if he would let her!)? This is her strategic response to stay safe! We are all faced with lecherous douchebags! We have all been in a…

I bet 9/10 women have been in this situation countless times.

I think he is exactly abusive. 

This is my thought.  She was assaulted but just didnt want to deal with the fucking fallout.  It is not okay to out victims.  Some people need to move on in their own way.

My thought is that this is traumatizing either way-being connected to rape.

I dont know.  They keep touching their hair..

The part where a person uses substances or intimidation (and relentless nagging ala Aziz) because they are older, richer and more powerful is the gray area (for many people, not me) where they tend to shrug these things off and blame the victim. But the predator is counting on the public not wanting to do the work of…

That's what i said.

Here’s some useful advice for Asia: never under any circumstanxes should you ever consider sex with: a co star who played your child or who is legally a child. A 37 year old woman preying on a 17 year old is pretty gross.

Age of consent is 17 in many states, like New York. That being said, i obviously dont think this was consensual and the power dynamic makes itevil no matter how you slice it.

I think rapists generally dont denounce rape, they deny it. Rapists who denounce rape are still rapists.  I'm a little confused ar what point your trying to make.

TThis being used as evidence against the me too movement is already happening in this comment section. People are not all goood at critical thought.

Argento can be a perpetrator and a victim.  The fact that men are coming forward now means women's hard work in this movement has benefitted them too despite the stigma assigned to victims. So, your POV is steeped in victim blaming and misogyny in that you think women only want justice and healing for other women. …

Why is this so hard?? Why do people act like professionalism is optional? Like when you are expected to attend a work party at a bar and drink booze with your abusive boss on your own free time.  Why are people acting like they can’t see a problem here? She talked about stroking his hair with his head in her lap in…