That seems like a bit of a simplistic platitude, no?

I think if you like the person it could be worth examining your own biases with them. Try asking their help with it. And do your best to enter every conversation with empathy and love. Maybe most of all for yourself. Good luck! All relationships are hard. But so, so worth it.

Well. Now I wanna know what article!?

Thank you for this. I want so badly to do something and this helps me. It helps direct this anguish.

I don't need a distraction from this. I need to do something. I don't know what to do.

God, that is such crap. When people are theorizing about crimes that they would commit, how many of them are property crimes and how many of them are *direct violent crimes against another person*?

less than 24 is just fucking rude

I want to comment forever on this post! I pretty much hate all other parents. Either they're shit parents and their kids are dicks (i.e. all of em) or they don't drink and bitch enough. My #1 rule: if they don't bitch they are lying lyersons. #2-I don't care how much you lie if you'll drink beer and tell me stories.

Odessa!!!!!!

I need a super secret "like x 1,000" button here; anyone....?

I love this one with all of my soul.

Missoula has 3 sushi restaurants! 3 in a city of 65,000. Not too shabby.

It *is* helpful. My daughter is 3 1/2 and I'm still putting my "self" back together. Articles like these aren't venomous, they are sharing war stories. There is huge comfort in hearing that you aren't the only one to go through an experience (that I, for one, desperately wanted to go through) that ended up going so…

That's not at all true.

I run a division because the director skipped out at the same time that we were understaffed by 25%. Through sheer necessity I implemented something like this. "Hey Bish, can I leave early/take Monday off/etc." Bish: "can you still do your job/meet your goals on time? Then I don't give a hoot when you're here".

Holy hell that just gave me the bawls. (i dunno, kid's 3 and i still have major sleep deprivation?)

Me too! It's my secret method of wearing t-shirts to work *every day*. And I work in finance. (not nyc fwiw) Take that conservative dressing menfolk that surround me, ha!

Ok this is so great to hear. I used to be a coroner's investigator and we would always make the new police recruits thank their first dbs.

OMFG Thank you for that song. I am now completely obsessed. Thanks! new music best evar screw the alarm. It's Christmas again. Now down the wiki hole of Chet Faker....

Your ass needs a regular column.