first of all, his name is Smirnoff. Sorry to profile but you know you're a tool when...

omg do we have the same crazy stepmother?

i wax because i really suspect i'm descended from wolves: lotta hair on my head, lotta hair on my lady parts, and trimming (which would include shaving) just takes too long, is just as bad for that area and i'm just not that bendy. but the aftercare is crucial and i have no problem perusing a guy's nether regions for…

at 17, after a life as "the fat and funny one, puberty hit again and i lost thirty pounds in a years time. EVERYone and their cousin commented on it "you look so good" that the inevitable thought process began: "if i look so good now, what did i look like before...well i can never let myself look like that again!"…

what's weird for me is that i was definitely an overweight pre-teen and teen, then gained some weight in my 20s but i looked good...damn good if i say so myself. yet, being a former chubby kid and having obesity on both sides of my family, ive always been weight-obsessed and trying ways of losing and…

i remember exactly when i changed my (healthy) self-perception: i was 11 at a sleepover and we were talking about things we liked. i said that i loved my thighs (i really did, i found them cool-looking in their brownness and roundness)....and the other girls laughed at me. im 30 now and all i can think is "how cool…

hey, feel how you feel. i agree that how individuals respond to this particular life event doesn't matter to the issue. that said, there is no prescribed emotional plan: you just feel how you feel. my kid'd be 6. it's ok.

...that's true for any religious extremist. was dr. tiller assassinated by a muslim? no. a christian? NO. A Christian extremist? YES.

my mom had an abortion after me. and it was the right choice for her and us. *SMILE*!

i read that and YES!

did anyone see the South Park where Cartman's mom wanted an abortion...of him?! it was hilarious and exactly what came to mind when i read "under threat of being legally aborted." if this is the same group as the "survivors" they have some fucked up parents. just sayin'.

word! she strikes me as someone who, sadly, won't "get it" until she's actually knocked up, intended or not.

i had the same thought!

agreed. some of the "hope" these folks have belies how naive they are. they want to end the act of aborting? as long as there's pregnancy there will always be termination — it's just how we do it that's the point of debate.

"I'm like, so blessed, because everything I've gotten to do, I never would have dreamed it would've happened."...you're welcome, said reproductive rights.

i agree. and i swear he rips on "kardashian" in one of his older songs!

I'm a single female PhD student and plan to stay that way while on the job market just for this reason (among other things). but i will say even as a grad student in my last relationship i basically wrote my ex's essays when he applied to business school (he got in) and helped tutor his son. i wanted to help in these…

I'm a single female PhD student and plan to stay that way while on the job market just for this reason (among other things). but i will say even as a grad student in my last relationship i basically wrote my ex's essays when he applied to business school (he got in) and helped tutor his son. i wanted to help in these…

As an existing female PhD student....please accept the reality that LaChavanila is not exaggerating!

As an existing female PhD student....please accept the reality that LaChavanila is not exaggerating!