But Boy Geniuses™ need to consume other humans so they can make art about it because MUH ART. Harder to get them all swoony if they just tell people, "Oh hey, I'm an abusive, vacant drug addict and can't function in real life, so let's pretend a string of drug-addled masturbatory non sequiturs celebrating my lack of…

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Reading is fundamental, so let me clarify my statement: "Your repeated, irrationally defensive response and relentless insistence that a rape allegation must be false because nonsensical reasons—after being referred to reliable sources that detail how nonsensical and incorrect your reasons are for insisting you're…

Yup. Understanding tonic immobility as a defense mechanism is pretty important for assault survivors/prosecutors, etc.

Pro tip: Lots and lots of women will forever side-eye you if after hearing someone say s/he's been raped, you immediately jump to "That's not rape" or "s/he's obviously lying," then get super invested in explaining to everyone how assault victims obviously have to act in very specific ways—even after a mega-fuck-ton…

Um, I already sent you links that detail common psychological responses to assault, one of which is denial. As in, acting like nothing happened. As in, maybe continuing to go to a concert. Because complex psychological defense mechanism after having one's body violated. Aaaaaand done with this because you're clearly…

Oh, you were there? And you already read all those articles I linked to? With the science about how you're not at all correct in your assumptions?

Please have some shut the fuck up. People who have been assaulted act in all kinds of ways during or afterwards (see tonic immobility, for example, which used to be called "she didn't put up a fight, so she wanted it") and denial (aka, trying to survive the anguish of assault by not acknowledging it). Humans act in…

Yeah, women learned a couple decades ago that we're just like humans and stuff. Woops! Can't unring that bell, fellas! This might actually be one of the top 20 creepiest sentences I've ever read.

I. Just. Cannot. First two paragraphs had me laughing so hard my neighbors might look at me funny tomorrow, and then I got to

Your argument seems to be: males can want to fuck AND want to fuck people they're sexually attracted to (which in this study = females restricted to a 10-year age set) AND want to father children, and those can all be separate, complex, organically rooted behaviors because "male biology," but "female biology" is…

There's that, yeah. And I get how fertility cues are inextricable from (hetero)* sexuality. It's not the only element of sexual attraction because I'm pretty sure we have recreational sex, not just procreational sex. So reducing this to a procreation imperative while not discussing the occurrence of actual baby-making…

Er, disagree with pretty much everything you've said here. First, discussing women's gendered sexual behavior in the aggregate without looking at social norms (like, say, a pervasive culture of slut-shaming and the prevalent, global experience of women re: sexual assault/abuse) makes zero sense. So yeah, "we know…

Yeah, that is such weird phrasing: like, regular dudes just want to get into all their normal dude heterosexual activities with all fertile twentysomethings because fertility, but the feeeeemales get all "constraining" on them by having a right to choose who they hump? Um. Huh? Also, if "fertility" is the reason for…

YASSSS. Love her. "Miss America" rules my life.

Actually laughed out loud. Thunderdome.

This has been nuts to watch. So...if the argument is that violent video games are an art, and they don't encourage real-life violence and misogyny, maybe the rabid faction could stop using paramilitary language while planning coordinated online harassment campaigns on anonymous internet boards, and stop obsessively…

Er, spewing filth at a stranger for not having your needs immediately met is more than over-sensitve. Also, there's a lot of room between being honest about intentions and assuming it's normal to tell a stranger "I need to stuff that ass with my 9-inch dick." Like, before even saying "Hi, how's it going."

Maybe "dating" isn't exactly the right word for what dudes on OkC want from 20somethings, considering the huge volume of creeptastic messages from dudes on OkC. #notalldudesonOkC

Met my last boyfriend/now semi-retired stalker on OkC. I say semi-retired because he hasn't contacted me since I blasted him with "YOU'RE FUCKING STALKING ME" a few months ago when he snuck in under my phone radar by calling from a different number. Still, he lives in my town now. Where he didn't live before. But does…