His name is Cale Hartmann. Avoid him.

His name is Cale Hartmann. He deleted his social media accounts, but you can see him on Funny or Die.

I hate that we are socialized to say “I don’t wish him harm” when coming out with stories of abuse. If you don’t, great, do you. But women shouldn’t be pressured to prove a “pure” motive for sharing their experiences. You're allowed to wish that the person who raped you get hit by a bus.

Let’s take a minute to consider that this is Nik Richie, founder of a revenge porn gossip site, trying to press a woman into talking about rape. This is the kind of woman he regularly chews up and calls a gutterwhore on his website.

If Lala doesn’t feel violated, I am happy and glad for her (being a rape survivor myself, I would never wish anyone to feel what I feel/felt), but I certainly hope she doesn’t feel like she can speak for any other women that have had a similar experience with this guy. She might not feel violated or threatened by him,…

The person, who identifies himself as male, also says that while Deen is an “asshole,” he’s not a rapist...

It has been four days since my best friend went to the Rainbow Bridge. Hoagie was a 16 year old beagle I adopted when he was 8. He meant a lot to me and I meant a lot to him, which meant a lot to me. Luckily I could be with him when he was put to sleep. He was the last remaining joy of my life and practically my…

It’s been a while since I commented, and like some sort of a moron, I decided that commenting on a thing about sexual assault would be a good thing for a rape survivor to do. But I’m also a man.

This is from the night Stoya posted her tweets. Gaby was defending him hard, but deleted her tweets and made a hollow ally statement acting like she’s a feminist hero. She hasn’t apologized for the fact that MRAs have RAN with her words saying it PROVES Stoya is lying. And even worse? She is making it all about her…

From the Daily Mail this morning:

WW are about to roll their eyes at me but I will say this shit till the cows come home.
That 20% less shit is WHITE WOMEN ONLY.

then i guess you’re the perfect victim that would do everything right, and she’s not. congratulations! that must make you feel so superior to her, which i’m sure is comforting or something—cool!

And here’s another, buried Tweet that no one has mentioned. This is awful.

I really loved that statement. Especially this part:

Feel the need to rant.

How the fuck does this shit happen while other people are in the room and filming and nobody says anything????

I’ve seen two more performers share their assault on Twitter today. Hopefully someone in the media picks up their stories. They deserve to be heard.

You know who would never label himself a feminist? My dad. He is in his late 60s and says all kinds of sexist shit all the time. Not maliciously but like a guy who has never had to think too hard about his own privilege. Here’s another story about my dad. When I was like ten or so we were watching a van Damme movie…