Dudebro, we change attitudes by educating everyone what objectification/sexism is and why it's harmful. We change attitudes and actions by changing how we speak about issues like sexual violence. We change how people think by showing them how much sexism is a part of our history. We don't change shitty situations by…

Ok, you just need to stop. The problem with your "solution" is that it ignores the history of sexual abuse towards women and how systemic it is. Boundaries don't mean anything to people who think they're entitled to another person's body. That's what the issue is. Not deciding when it's "ok" to objectify other people…

OMG you guys!! He found the key to stopping sexual abuse! BOUNDARIES. Why hasn't ANYONE thought of this before?

We do not live in a culture where people will routinely walk into a room and misunderstand the situation, then refuse to allow someone to explain, despite how often it happens

The problem is you're just absolutely refusing to see rape culture because you haven't experienced it. It's similar to me saying Australia doesn't exist because I've never been there.

That reminds me of a debate that took place during a sociology lecture. The professor had three groups of two (except me cause apparently I'm too intimidating to debate with) debating the source of poverty : culture (me!), society, and the individual. Of course I don't remember exactly everything, but the society…

You are the smartest person ever and I love you.

You said exactly what I was feeling but didn't have words for.

With respect, ultimatums can be pretty manipulating. Yes, we don't know what their relationship was like and we can't. His own account of the situation though doesn't make it seem like he really needed an open relationship. He states plainly he wanted to fuck other, "hotter" girls, but also keep his girlfriend because…

I'm on her FetLife profile now while writing this and I have to look at this shit every day, and her relishing in it without ANY thought to my lack of dates

Here's my two cents :

I have to say I love all of these "BUT WHAT IF SOMEONE GETS FALSELY ACCUSED? WHAT ABOUT THE MEN? NAMALT!!!!!!!!!"

Brah, what utopia do you live in where cops, as a rule, give a shit about rape survivors? Where do you live that rape kits are given priority? Take a look at any other piece on rape on campus, of minors, committed by famous people, and you will find the people that DO care are few and far between, and not in a…