I feel bad for those people. Could you imagine being in college and having to rationalize the "sin" of becoming an adult. They grew up surrounded by prohibition and become sad and guilt-ridden for going through a very human experience: sex and sexuality. I would hate to live like that.

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I'm glad you appreciate it! To be perfectly honest, I was getting SO tired of all the other discussions going on debating what slut-shaming is and is not...and being wrong. I just took a moment to remember what it was like becoming an adult, and I really could've used a conversation like that. A lot of young people…

So you're speaking to a specific group of people. I think you're making a generalization that is invalidating your argument. I went through a phase myself where I thought I HAD to be sexy EVERY second of EVERY day, so I wore tight and revealing clothing. Now that I've grown up more, I still wear tight and revealing…

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That letter is some of the most insulting p.o.s. I've ever read. I just want to scream at parents like these: "GUESS WHAT YOUR CHILDREN HAVE A SEXUALITY THEY WILL LIKELY EXPLORE BETWEEN THE AGES OF 12 AND 25!" Ugh!

I think being influenced by what a culture or a society thinks is "beautiful" is a valid argument, but if you only continue to wear clothes or put on makeup only because other people have validated it, you should probably reconsider some things. I went through a phase where I craved external validation...and then I…

You're still putting responsibility on the victim, not the assailant. In reality, NO ONE is safe from assault, because it's something ANOTHER PERSON chooses to do to the VICTIM.

1. An entire generation of young women think feminism is bullshit because of many more generations before them enforcing gender roles and stereotypes.

You know what, I'm just gonna say it!

What she is wearing has nothing to do with "assailants". The assailant has everything to do with assault. No matter what your daughter is wearing, it is the decision of another person to become an assailant.

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"I appreciate Jezebel defending a woman's right to dress like she wants, but I'm sorry, a lot of women have zero clue when and where sexually provocative attire is appropriate."

I believe these guys ACTUALLY think they're being smart/creative/funny. That they don't see how invasive and dumb they're being is a failure of sex "education" everywhere.

That is EXACTLY how I feel.

This may come from a super fringe group of the Catholic Church, but it is still coming from...the Catholic Church. It may be a very exagerrated p.o.v. of the Church, but it's genesis is still Catholicism.

Best response. I completely agree. What these white girls are doing is shameful, and they should be shamed for it. Being black/white/asian/latina/whatever is not something to be ashamed of.

I didn't even think about this until I read your post. What if some of these girls apply for jobs in areas that aren't so backward and get refused positions because of it?

I don't think her name gives her much credibility beyond Greek life procedures either, but GreekGirl07 is probably a human, and as a human, she gets to have an opinion, even if I don't agree with it. Opinions are not facts, just opinions. If she is taking her opinion as fact, then there is a problem.