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I know this sounds too hyperbolic taken on its face, but I do think it’s something that should be said and considered: to some extent, organisations like Jezebel are continuing, and furthering, the abuse that people have suffered when they insist to us that they are notable first and foremost for their victimhood.

More than one Black comic has a negative story to tell about Cosby along with all the other people besides his rape victims to come and say ‘America’s Dad’ was/is really an asshole. He’s an elitist who took joy shitting on his own. One of those crabs in barrel who believes there can only be ONE. His fame and money

I’m going to head out on a limb and suggest that Richard Pryor blazed a trail for Murphy far more than Cosby did.

Lol Cardi. Even the pope could not stop Henry VIII from being a dog.

That’s actually a really good analogy (simile? comparison? I never know). Ambivalence is a very natural human reaction, particularly to an intense situation. Obviously war is intense, but so is the kind of constantly-spotlighted celebrity Beyonce lives in. Giving “zero fucks” while also really caring very deeply about

I don’t normally have opinions on Meghan Edwards, but as far as letting your 3 year old sleep in a crib? You do you, girl.

My 2.5 y/o son is still in his, and even though he’s an amazing sleeper, you better believe I’m going keep him in that thing until he figures out how to escape it.

Having to deal with a toddler

If you tumble dry them, they have a more casual look to them. Save the ironing for formal occasions.

Re: Dwyane Wade’s Dadness.  I don’t know what it says about our society when we laud a man for being a good father, something every man with children should strive to be.  (Not a knock on D-Wade, by any means, more a comment on our society.)

Happy to to give you my thoughts on this issue

The problem is also that you really don’t know how you’re going to react when it happens. Flight, fight, freeze? it’s not a conscious response.

“No thanks, I have a boyfriend.” - His thoughts: ‘She’s a liar’ or ‘fuck her for fucking other men.’

I just want to throw in my two cents. I am 67 and don’t care what anybody does about marriage or children. Everything is fine with me.  I sometimes feel distressed that some folks here seem to get the impression that everybody over 50 is a fucking idiot.

I talk dirty for a living and would scrub the word “butt” out of existence if I could. So tame and pedestrian, maybe two notches above “down there”. Men excel at objectifying women. Yet men are shit at articulating their objectification. Thank fuck.

Hey, Billy Madison and Happy Gilmore are perfectly cromulent films! I will not, however, defend Little Nicky. Like, what in the hell was that?

As a former yoga teacher and practitioner of 15 years, this story is disturbing and dismaying - but I find the headline sensationalistic. In the global yoga community we’ve had some horrible high-profile cases of (usually male) yoga teachers abusing their power, but saying sexual assault under the guise of

Is it that when students are given the option they tend to be verbal about not wanting to be touched, as opposed to being able to take advantage of their silence?

i’m too lazy to read Solo’s post. i do think that he was too old for her.

Eh. Personally, as a Black woman I wish she wouldn’t have used the N word, even with an ‘a’. That bothers me a lot more than a few flowery words that have no real impact. As a non famous Black person, I have to navigate through a world where non Blacks use it because she and other Black celebrities do.

It’s great to have your parents a little bit on the opposite side of the spectrum (restrictive and permissive) as it teaches balance, but having one parent running the house like Mike Pence and the other like a madam at the Bunny Ranch is a disaster waiting to happen...

THAT NOID STORY!!!!