There can't ever be a healthy BDSM relationship when half of the party abuses and humiliates the other four sexual gratification. No amount of "aftercare" makes up for the fact that the Dom is literally beating the sub.

“The suspicion that my dinner with friends has become a narrative device in his erotic fantasy begins to engulf me with all the heat and dread of a woman’s consciousness.”

It was only 3 years ago that the NFL was embroiled in the “Bend the Knee” controversy, and yet so many Black performers are willing to cash in the paycheck to “prove” just how Not-Racist the NFL isn’t for the Halftime Show (ahem, *Brian Flores*). It’s the same story with cheerleaders and their dignity... what are you…

Ol’ Joe had his wife tell the nation that free community college was off the table. The man doesn’t have the balls to take responsibility for his own failures, he has to dump it on his wife! It’s official for me: Fuck Joe Biden.

The Asian community can point our/their fingers too, but that would be missing the point... this is miniscule compared to LOSING OUR VOTING RIGHTS. 

Hard disagree with Gaga's acting- that accent was shit, her performance was a caricature, and hopefully that God-awful movie will fade away.

I personally agree, but I also have a friend who like a whole freaking fist *literally* pounding away [she’s a burlesque performer and once posted an “artistic” album displaying her submissive, BDSM fetish (it was yanked by FB)]. The album triggered a now-6-year internal battle with my feminism and ability to look her…

Then this story shouldn’t be included in Dirt Barg if we’re not allowed to discuss the Political/Social context of the story. The Black and Asian Communities are getting a little too close, and I fully believe the racially-charged stories being released on the media are attempts to break that bond. I think especially…

*Actually* I ONLY post photos where my double chin and cellulite are on full display. #bodypositivity.( /s)

AND yet another nail in the voting rights coffin:

Re: “Awkwafina deleted her Twitter account amid ongoing backlash about her appropriating Black culture.”

I couldn’t watch this show because while my brain understood, logically, that these were all adult actors, emotionally my brain kept screaming "they're teenagers!" I'm too old to watch this and it is kind of creepy that Leo di Caprio was such a screaming fan (in light of him dating 19 year old in perpetuity).

Thank you!!! 👏

It’s really fucked up that your focus is on people mis-terming the Metaverse, while my entire point has been that it’s fucked that people are simulating sexual assault against unwilling people. You’ve repeatedly downplayed the severity to focus on whether or not it's a physically "real" space.

1) The VR world isn’t “real”, but these women were chased and groped in this virtual setting with the intention of harassment. Just because you don’t think these women have the right to be upset because “it isn’t real” is FUCKED.

My disgust is, primarily, at the behavior of people who would simulate assault, and that you aren't disgusted as well (and choosing to focus your useless rant on the blocking feature) leads me to believe that you're the type to do this. 

Respecting Kim’s wishes would be keeping her name out of her mouth. Respect would be to say, “That’s not my place to answer that.” “We worked around some absences.”

The last bit, regarding the Metaverse, JFC

Good for her to recognize her worth...and parents: Why in the hell are you having celebrities be your kids’ role model? These are fallable humans and it’s irresponsible parenting to place the onus of raising “your” idea of a decent human being on people neither you nor your child are likely to ever get to know. What…

She and her family should absolutely be called out for their behavior- I will never think it’s okay to attack someone’s physical traits. That hatred gets projected onto others and it's fucked up to justify bullying behavior.