My other reply was supposed to go to someone in the grays who was being a fucking dick...I was going to reply, got distracted with the Ju On: Origins series on Netflix and didn’t realize it was still on you.
I would never respond like that, even though I am confused (though not being judgmental) by how your brain…

I get the submissive nature, to an extent. I was shocked when I read your other reply of a two week stint...I could not take it and so it’s confusing to me. I do hope that you are safe, and that whomever is doing this to you never goes beyond the boundaries. At 40, I know way too many women that have been raped/abused…

That is not at all equivalent. I didn’t go into my 15-year marriage agreeing to be humiliated and abused. We have a very healthy sex life, full of consent, respect, and love. We do not choke one another, beat, or mimic rape. Given that we’ve been quarantining for 6-months, and fuck like rabbits, it’s very clear that…

You clearly need help, and I hope you get it.

You’re a disgusting piece of abusive shit and can fuck right off.

That is 100% what they meant. I am sorry that happened to you, and you are absolutely proving my initial point. I will never trust a dominant person, because they are experiencing sexual pleasure from dominating (abusing, humiliating, treating as property). I do absolutely understand why submissive persons perform…

I truly do not believe anything that you wrote. I think you are lying to try and prove your point. You can fuck right off.

“Trying to find weak prey”...so the women they assault are just weak prey? You’re a fucking victim-blaming piece of shit. I hope to God that no friend ever tries to confide their assault to you, given that you would jsut call them ‘weak prey’.
Jesus Christ, I hope you’re never assaulted, and especially you’re not given…

You are completely disingenuous, and given that I have gone to support groups for almost 20 years I would put money on you lying about supposedly writing literature. Given the NUMEROUS advocacy groups have been warning the public about the BDSM Movement (and yes, that is what it is being called given that it IS being…

Yes, I can pull studies as well. Visit any number of support groups for survivors of domestic assault, review any of their literature, and look past the bias of studies that start in SUPPORT (with very vague standards to look unbiased) and see the difference. Jezebel even posted an article JUST LAST WEEK discussing…

Because far more women (and men) have been abused than the overall public realize, and while subs are acting out rape/abuse they’ve endured, doms are manipulative pieces of shit who are acting out rape fantasy’s.
This is truly the most manipulative movement, and subs should be forewarned that the number of abuse and…

I tried to point this out during a review of the movie, and got talked down by someone (whose comments had a lot of stars, meaning a lot of people agreed with them) who was defending the perpetrator. This BDSM movement is taking advantage of the victimization of the “sub”. The Doms are acting out the fantasy of…

*not snarky*
Were you not wanting any sort of romance at all? I mean, I think everyone was kind of skeeved at the idea of WF and RM being a couple, given that they saved any romance at all until the VERY END.
I felt it was more a growth-for-olds (they did keep mentioning Lars being middle-aged, so he was well over 30).…

I have watched it 3 times since Friday, once alone, once with the family, and then a second time kind of with my husband who came in and out of the room. This has to be my favorite movie rn.

Bye Karen, and all of the other Karens. 

Yes and THANK YOU! I love the writers, but these comments are killing me. It’s really not a surprise that we’re doing this in 2020, but it’s damn pathetic. Much love and be safe out there! <3

I should add this note, that I’m tired of the vitriol directed at Jezebel over the articles they’ve written about this racist stuff white celebrities are getting caught up in. Specifically over the past month, I think it was Jimmy Fallon? Someone right after Hanna Brown said the N Word...look in the comments section.…

This apathetic, don’t give a shit attitude is WHY we’re at this point. This is LITERALLY how you hold people accountable. Why do you get to set an arbitrary sliding scale of what is and isn’t okay? Either it’s all okay, or none of it is.

Well, when generations of the White and Privileged (sounds like a soap opera) let this shit go on because of some arbitrary sliding scale this is what happens. That exact attitude, your White Privilege, has brought it to this point.
Why the fuck do you get to decide what is and isn’t racist enough for accountability to…

To all of those whining about this woman CHOOSING to leave a platform that allowed her to publish racist content that *she* created:
This is how shit gets changed.
Being apathetic, or “not giving a shit until a “real” scandal comes along”* , allows all of this racist shit to continue well into 2020. No one was called…