@avclub-3be42d8a3412057f79af152555e39bd4:disqus , that can certainly be true. But me feel like you need to date one person before you can say with any authority who best person in entire world for you to date is.

@avclub-9ff7c9eb9d37f434db778f59178012da:disqus , that awful story. At same time, we can't be responsible for everything that happen to ex after they leave our warm embrace.

@avclub-c701a997d9bef627835b036efb4eca63:disqus , me not basing post on personal experience, me basing it on research. Do Google search for "average married couple has sex", and answer you most often get is 2 to 2.5 times a week.

Me would be happy to do that. It probably just come down to whoever get to article first and open floor for questions.

Miss Hoover, there dog in vents!

Me suspect those are same states.

Thanks, guys! Me was visiting family in Ireland, and took side trip to Paris on important macaroon-finding mission. Great trip, but also nice to be back wasting time on internet.

There was great Onion article along lines of, "Area Man Finds Soul Mate In Graduating Class of 64 Students," and how, in all of world, there was only one girl for this guy, and it was basically only girl he knew.

Me have this web site!

@avclub-6beb5f589a9fd04c21fcd50db3d9c80c:disqus , your experience not typical. "Sex-at-least-once-a-day" girls pretty rare, once relationship move past early stage. And when sex drives are incompatible, issue not necessarily communication - issue is that sex drives are incompatible. You can have all the long, open,…

Line is drawn he-ah!!! (Sorry, me couldn't resist.) Line is when one partner feels unloved, unwanted, and unhappy, and that different for everyone.

No, given every factor you mention, it would be pretty remarkable that you finish. But important thing not whether you finish or not, it that after 12 years, wife still adventurous. You have good thing going, so try not to stress over details.

This seems to be at root of so many relationship problems - it person's only real relationship and they have nothing to compare it to. How many letters to Savage, or to other folks, spell out problem, and then mention that letter-writer is 24-year-old in 8-year relationship?

Seldom? 2-3 times a week is average for married couple. Certainly not "me have no choice but to seek outside blowjob" territory. Me think, at very minimum, you need dry spell of several months and make every effort to work things out with spouse before you can feel even tiniest bit justified in cheating.

Also worth reading, Big Day Coming, history of Yo La Tengo that come out last year. It double as history of Maxwell's, Hoboken music scene, and indie rock in general (at least on East Coast). Author not the greatest writer, but if you grew up on indie rock, just so many great stories and great glimpse into how scene…

@ComradeQuestions:disqus , me not understand how you can argue Abrams made bad movies with mentioning previous Trek films. Franchise as whole not have great track record. Which films are legitimately better than first Abrams movie? Wrath of Khan, that a gimme. Probably Undiscovered Country, maybe Voyage Home.…

Exactly. Does Abrams Trek really not live up to high standards of excellence set up Insurrection and N———?

Please. Besides stuff already mentioned, first two seasons of Alias absolutely untouchable.

Me wanted to comment more, but Disqus is huge pain on that site. Me find it hard to log in.

It even have guy sprung from institution to help blonde girl with magical powers. But me loved Fringe, so me perfectly happy if Abrams want to go back to that well. Maybe people will actually watch this time.