… 6/7/17, apples realizes Andrew Ti and Ti West are different people

Same. Almost all of my relationships - dating, or friendships - involve me (probably wisely) muting some part of my personality or thoughts. This guy I just let my full-force crazy go and he not only obliged me but seemed to be really in to it. Was a really nice feeling………………I should text him to see whats up.

Which ended up being the case! "I'm not in the mood to have sex" really meant "I want to have sex just not with you"

I'm a rational person, mostly, but, sort of? When me and my ex were not having sex finding out that he would masturbate would flip me the fuck out.

About a month ago I think I was asking for advice in these comments about a guy that seemed to be moving too quickly with me. I had only been single for like a month at the point and still felt pretty raw. We talked all the time, he even called me! Like every night! I hate talking on the phone, but man for some reason…

I think all of those things are great qualities though, for someone once they're already in a relationship. It's surprisingly rare for me (and to be fair, rare for me to be that person either) to find someone who will remember something dumb I said I was interested in and act on it later. Self-confidence in yourself…

Sounds like you guys are just benjamin buttoning the relationship. I suggest you guys adopt the nice adult man as a child, get married, meet her mother and then maybe have sex.

Fair.

did you adopt?

I think maybe too, something important and easier said than done (because lord knows I am often incapable of this) is don't think about it at all after posting here. Just let it go for a few days until the next time you see her.

"I just hope I don't overthink things, or worse rush them. […] I thought I would make a couple of DVD copies of "The Red Shoes" and "The Tales of Hoffmann" to give to her next time I see her."

Every week is something fun and new and awful being single :)

Might just be my mood, or, me projecting the shit I want to say to my own selfish ex but fuck it, I say be selfish. I say give him a letter of shit back at him.

same

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To be fair you could describe me that way too

It really is the subtext you gotta pay attention to in these posts

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