Okay. I now officially want to hang with JT and be besties. I apologize for the boy-band hating of my youth. I have seen the error of my ways.

I just wanna kiss his little nose! So cute! I think maybe I'll name my next cat Dovahkin...(I live in apartments, so no dogs.)

Yeah, I'm kind of disappointed, too. I think Bethesda really missed an entire marketing opportunity here by never including a single different character in any of the marketing material. I love buying stuff like this, but the default Dovahkin is so far removed from my experience of playing a game I love enough to…

Honest question: if she wasn't wearing the feather and beads, would this still read as redface? The flannel and braids and weird robe don't read as American Indian to me, but I fully acknowledge my lack of familiarity with American Indian cultures.

In the US, it is common and acceptable to use the term American Indian. In fact, there are many American Indians who prefer to *not* be referred to as Native American. It's like the difference between African American and black. Individuals will have their preferences, of course, and we should respect that when it's…

Yes. It is one of the biggest reasons I broke up with my boyfriend of three years. We are both under 30.

I found a place to live today! Wooooo! No more homeless-ness for me! And it's right around the corner, literally, so I don't even have to worry about budgeting for more gas. Yes!

Honestly, I think we should explicitly raise the question of how to be a man, the way we raise the question of how to be a woman so much. We are pretty accepting of lots of different ways to be a women, from sporty to traditionally feminine, and we say that any variation of this is fine. (On a large scale.) I think we…

For the unrequited/unable to be realized variety, I am obsessed with Blue Sky Black Death's "Secrets."

I posted on Sunday about probably being homeless soon. I am happy to report that I have not one but two good leads on the line, including one place right around the corner with a lady who seems pretty rad!Thanks for the support and advice, ladies!

I'm told the pain goes away in a day or two; hang in there, lady!

This is the greatest gif I've seen in weeks. Considering I'm on tumblr solely for the gifs, that's saying something.

I am so thankful for this woman and her hard work. Thank you, Ms. Sivac, for making the lives of women everywhere that much better.

For me it's not reluctance; I just can't physically handle it. I have tried with my fingers to masturbate and with applicator-less tampons. I didn't even think it would be a big deal until I tried to do it. I was horribly freaked out; I nearly had a panic attack the first time I put my fingers in my own body. I…

I remember learning about female condoms in my health class's unit on sex ed, and I remember thinking, "Well, that's never going to happen." I can't even use ob tampons because the idea of shoving anything into my own body freaks me out so viscerally.

That sounds like a great idea, thanks!

They can, actually, because of the weird laws here. I'm not family, so they told her she'd be fined a shitton if I'm here after the 16th and not paying rent. This area has VERY powerful HOA.

The housing commission is broke, so there's no money to fund section 8 housing anymore. They were the first place I went to. I have been looking into shared housing, but everyone wants at minimum $450/month, and is all so far away from my job that I'd spend probably another $100/month in gas. I live in a stupidly…

The sad thing is, this *is* my reduced loan amount. Before this, I owed more money each month than I made. :/

They're actually keeping tabs on the situation. I can't stay at all without having my name on a leasing contract or the deed past the 16th, unfortunately. And she really doesn't want to get in trouble with the HOA.