I guess part of my point here is that with sexual interaction, it's messy. Figuratively. It's more complex than running an errand to the store, which means that communication about the issue must happen.

But she isn't keeping them secret. He knows she is having them, he just doesn't want to know specifics.

*headinhands*

So you've re-conceptualized what some might take to be a healthy relationship using your own OBVIOUS biases and decided it's not healthy and that, therefore, the woman in it deserves to be shamed for it.

It's not betrayal is your husband knows about it or if you ask for a divorce.

They like some of what their husbands provide, be it financial or emotional. But they want other/different/better sex. They are too cowardly to tell their husbands this...

could it be that the traits being labeled as "Alpha" — dominant, aggressive — are also tied to a deep cowardice?

could it be that the traits being labeled as "Alpha" — dominant, aggressive — are also tied to a deep cowardice?

I think that's actually a fair response. If someone asked me about cold fusion I'd say "Look, I'm not a physicist." The important thing is that he not go hypocritical and that means keep his mouth shut about a lot of other stuff.

Why can't kids get some distance from it now? They can turn off their phones. One thing one might want to teach their kids is that a good way to deal with bullying online is to turn off their phones for a while and go out side and that bullies tend to get bored and go away if you don't respond. But there's a big…

Look.... I kinda agree with you. But something being bad for you and something being the specific cause of depression are not the same thing. Now maybe there is some link between staring at a computer screen all day and depression, but overreacting and shutting everything down isn't the solution. Feeling like they…

Why?

This is a pretty one dimensional analysis. Depression for everyone has been increasing over time. Not only are doctors getting better at diagnosing actual cases of depression, but drug companies (even in the UK) use their influence and kickbacks to sway doctors into diagnosing even more. Even ignoring the drug…

My god, you actually found one case in which a gif was a good idea. Now if only the other 8 of them weren't sucking up my bandwidth maybe this one would play smoothly.

It's a poster. It's one company. That writing something about gender inequality now requires that level of magnification on the minutia of our existence is surely a sign of how far we've come.

As an interesting social experiment let us wait a day and see whose post gets more recommendations, your actual good and noble advice or the picture of the grumpy cat a few inches above.

Oh... don't leave out the authors. They can be just as rigid and militant as the commenters on occasion.

Right... based on your own personal experience you've lumped all non-rap-likers together into one group and made a sweeping, negative assertion about them, that they are all racist.

Good job. If I've learned anything at Jezebel it's that it is important to jump all over someone the first time they do something in order to make ourselves feel better. Especially when it's a pretty, blonde woman.

Yeah... women are never that picky.