One day I was sitting on the bus behind a girl with headphones on with a guy started calling her "Blondie," and just generally telling her how he'd like to get to know her. He wasn't particularly crude about it, but it was clear his attention was unwelcome. But he kept trying, and she kept replying in monosyllables…

That makes me happy. I loved Kevin Sorbo's Hercules and it would have killed me to find out he was a jerk.

My grandmother lived and worked there over 30 years as a tour guide and she always made it her point to take the tourists to see some of the more "authentic" Asian culture far away from Orchard Road, Sentosa or the Quays. That means the "ethnic" neighborhoods (Chinatown, Serangoon Road, Kampung Glam, etc.), the little…

Yeah but Malaysia' attitudes towards gays are even more regressive. I know some people find Singapore sterile but having spent a lot of time there it has a lot to offer once you scratch the surface. Especially in terms of food, green spaces, and Asian culture.

Singapore is a great country.

It's easy to remove though, so if 3 years in you change your mind, quick appointment, little cough, and it's out. There is a second hormonal option from the same manufacturer called Skyla which is smaller and only good for 3 years. Might be a better option. I would say if it's the right method for you, even if…

I am never as quick on my feet as I am after turning off a basement light.

I'm showing up in this shirt:

I think you hit it on the head. Men who buy into gender roles as deeply as these guys don't form deep friendships with other men. They're not allowed to. Their only chance at deep emotional connection is with women, who reject them because they're creepy pieces of shit given human form.

One thing I've noticed in heterosexual situations:

"Is it because the "dime pieces" are literally the only ones on your radars?"

I'm 29. I've never dated or had sex and while I get sad about that, I've never considered hurting anyone over it.

To be fair though, I think girls have this too. That whole "feeling like no one attracted to you" is basically every girl's life. I constantly worry about the fact I've only been on two dates in the last year, and obsess about what I did to not be called again. Did I not have enough makeup? Did I have too much and…

I am in a hotel in Washington, DC, and my boyfriend is taking a bath, reading. I barge in, demanding to know if all men are terrible, eyes blazing. He tries to calm me down, but I am upset.

It's amazing how many dudes try to pick up WoC's by informing us that they've never tried our 'flavour' like we're some damn pint of Ben & Jerry's ice cream.

It's not that easy to just decide to stay in a country where you are not a citizen. Even if she's very rich, most countries have stringent rules about immigrating and loads of things you have to do in order to stay more than temporarily. Add to that the fact that she may have a family in Iran and maybe doesn't even…

"Actively critical" as in you went around and found people to criticize for light reading for fun? I find that rather odd and unnecessary. Why bother?

Yes— AND, one would think that men would be happy to relieve that eternal pressure of "She only likes me for my money" or "I can't get a girl, I don't make enough to attract the hot chicks". And all that other headdesky shit they take as granted. If a woman makes equal to/more than you, and she likes you, guess what?—…

The great thing is that his letter is a response to a lawsuit filed by two LESBIANS against the state anti-gay-marriage law.

I don't mean to single you out, but when you and other commenters here say "asian men," are you aware of how huge and diverse asia is?