I walk slower than my husband so I can be behind and look at

One day this privilege Olympics bullshit is going to start preventing people from seeking help for things because they keep getting told that if they're privileged in any way, they don't have real problems.

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Fairly light spanking games, blindfolding, very mild bondage, hickeys, basic butt play ... I was an extremely vanilla and fairly sheltered teenager, and I had tried all that at 19. No, not just you. I'm kind of disturbed at all the people I know IRL who think it's deeply kinky. Anne Rice would make these people's…

I work out a lot, usually. I have people regularly tell me they wish they had the time for that. Look, I work a minimum of 60 hours a week and have a million other things to do, I just put a priority on my workout. Growing up, my mom got up at 5 am to run before I woke up (she was a single mother). The people who…

I will absolutely flat out say I do not have an eating disorder. My defense of Maria's statement is only that I truly don't believe she mean't "you have no excuse for not looking like me." Based on her other posts, it seems as though she herself feels happy and fit and her statement was meant more as a, hey, I have…

Between my husband and me we have 4 degrees that we spent the equivalent of a house in most areas of the country, yet both of us have learned far more on our own since graduation than we did at these very expensive "name brand" universities. The primary worth of our degrees have been in the social networks they've…

My desire to eat big mac out weighs my desire for a six pack. I'm totes ok with this

Despite totally agreeing with the people who are saying that different body types are healthy for different people, I also totally agree with this post.

Exactly, unless you have don't have a deformity, disease, or health condition- there is no reason why you can't attain the type of body you would like.

That's exactly what the last sentence said, maybe you will never look like that, but perhaps you've achieved your goal in other ways. The key is defining the goal. Is it to get shredded abs? Is it to be healthy? Is it to be strong enough to play with your kid? How you define your goal reflects how your examine your…

Most missed the point entirely, if you WANT that look, there are no excuses. If you don't want it, or don't prioritize it, or whatever, who gives a shit? Of course someone will say, I want that look but my [insert tough medical diagnoses] prevents me. That's valid, maybe you should reevaluate your priorities and pick…

Touching my stomach is the opposite of sexy. I will only think of all the things I ate that day and WHY THE FUCK ARE YOU RUBBING MY BELLY?

Ok, first of all can I just say that I am excited for you, that you're about to finish season 5. Cherish it, my friend. The last few episodes of season 5 are so freakin good.

If you're interested still, you should see a new doctor. The idea that IUDs are only for women who've had children is kind of old school, and it's not recommended that doctors discourage it for nulliparous women anymore. That said, plenty of doctors are set in their ways, and ignore the new recommendations.

that is DUMB. I had Mirena inserted, I hadn't given birth, yes it hurt but jesus, it's way better than dealing with the side-effects of hormonal birth control.

I have mirena and have never had kids. Bc of this the first 6 mos were he'll, it hurt going in, I had cramps and heavy bleeding. But the last 2 years have been a dream. I have 1 day periods like clockwork, and the most minimal cramping (when ever since I got my period at 12- I'd be out of commission crying the first…

I had popcorn and two bowls of cereal for dinner.

I'm on my second Mirena. Haven't had a period for about 10 years and you'd have to pay me an awful lot to go back to having one. (FWIW, I've never had kids. An educated gyno will not refuse an IUD to a woman just because she's childless. The odds of expulsion are slightly higher, but not enough for it to really…

I'm from the Caribbean and most baby girls have their ears pierced, usually by their doctor. My daughter was about 3 months old and I had it done during a well-baby pediatrician's visit. No fuss, as clean and sanitary an environment as possible, no pain worse than that of a vaccination shot, no problems. Ear piercing…