Fair enough! I’m just giving the other side of the story where it’s not necessarily the case. We don’t know each others’ perspectives until we discuss them, right! I think the reason you got such backlash is because it comes off as once again, being told what you should look like (whether like or unlike the…

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I might be a little biased but much like misinformation about the IUD, it’s frustrating the misconceptions that float around because of misuse back in the day. Science has advanced and with it, corsetry and birth control!

Actually I have a a sport and physiotherapist who help me out and they help me with the proper way of wearing corsets, and they also say a lot of the same that this article said, hence my linking it here. But saying corsets are bad just because people don’t research it thoroughly and do it properly/with a professional…

oops didn’t see you had replied to me.

I’m just going to leave this here - http://www.thelingerieaddict.com/2015/03/corset…

I’m just going to leave this here - http://www.thelingerieaddict.com/2015/03/corset…

You’ve put it way more eloquently than I could have! :)

The refusal to acknowledge their own shitty behaviour either comes from true delusion or denial, either way it’s weird that trolling is seen as shitty behaviour yet the same ‘techniques’ (so to speak) and characteristics of trolling used in these scenarios are seen as heroic. It’s like The Onion is coming to life all…

Or you could use that space to educate those who are exhibiting shitty behaviour, as well as trust that your gf has actual wits about her and is a strong person who doesn’t need ‘protection’, while doing what you can to make the people in your office less douchey in general.

I also find a lot of it has to do with critical thinking, self-awareness and empathy. And I refuse to believe my husband doesn’t not have these values. I tend to take the teacher approach to things - just ask why and nudge them to their own conclusions. It also weeds out those who just don’t want to listen/learn and…

Tangential thought - imagine if Lord of the Flies consisted of a co-ed school instead of all boys.

She was the love of your life but you wanted to keep that a secret?

Keep asking “Why” until they’re forced to face the core of the issue here.

I like it.

Your logic -

Stats mean nothing to the individual.

Same boat! Singaporean married to a Calgarian here. The accent is so obvious to me but he insists it doesn’t exist.

Li’l John did zumba albums when he was in jail, so I can see DMX doing spin class tracks happening.

It’s like you and I are the same person, down to our year of birth.

Bear with me here, I mean this in a tongue-in-cheek/eff-you way because it’s 930am, I’ve been up for 4 hours and I’m annoyed with the world.

What if we started using this argument for breastfeeding or the like, imagine! When a woman pops her boob out to feed her baby in the middle of the park and offends someone, we…

edit - someone beat me to it!