While I agree some points that people nitpick when it comes to choosing someone can be rather arbitrary, I find that quite a few have basis in real requirements to a relationship. For example, I always thought "has a university degree" was a big point in my choosing a partner. Along with relatively fit, and is in the…

He was super cheesy had a weird walk and wore a baseball cap with his collar popped sometimes. Annoyed the fuck out of me, but now I love them all (except the popped collar, he just does that to tease me now the jerk :) )

Ugh I run away from serial monogamists. I find something has to be rather off if you keep 'falling in love' again and again. Probably filling a void. My longest relationship since I was 18 lasted 7months, and 5 years later I met a man, within 3 months I knew this was it, and bam - married in 5months. Totally get you.…

Actually there are, because a lot of guys like that tend to be arrogant or little boys. Those aren't the only qualifications for a relationship. I had the same, and took me five years before finding someone who both fit them enough (give or take a little on definition of fit, etc) and still was amazing and beautiful…

Also, ignore those who judge you because you want a man who takes care of his body. I get that you by no means expect a 6pack, but health is a huge indicator of personal pride and confidence. Actually both my man and I packed on honeymoon weight and so we decided to get a home gym and work out together. Not like I'm…

Stick it out! I was exactly the same (down to the letter) and after an intense LDR I started casually dating around for 5 years with no real interest to settle, or settle down. Then, in the middle of a holiday, while travelling in a country on the other side of the world, I met my now husband. He wasn't by any means…

I don't know if this has already been said, but as a Literature major I have to say I LOVED the double entendre on the 'dick' (as in the adjective and the noun) - don't know if your daughter was consciously aware of it when she wrote it, either way it's brilliant!!

Edit - anal sex between men is still illegal, I mean. I'm not too sure about oral at the moment (it used to be,though, obviously) but yup, it's illegal to be gay in Singapore. Granted, they insist they won't use the law to persecute anyone, that it's just there for show...but. I'm sure I don't have to mention why…

Actually, oral and anal sex were illegal in Singapore for many years. Now it's just anal...between men.

You're referring to xkcd's 'The Imposter'! I'd link it but my phone's weird. I'm a lit major and it makes me laugh, he gets away with faking through classes and that's so me the week after a weekend bender in Thailand :D