No no. I've been having alone time for years and years. I've had plenty of alone time. If I'm having orgasms, I'm just not very impressed by the whole deal. If what I think are orgasms are orgasms, they're not the mindblowing huge deal everyone seems to make of them, they're usually just a moderately pleasant…

I'm confused about why this is a problem, also. If the server needed more details about the extent of frying they could've asked about the runny level desired? Fried eggs are a common request.

Thank you! I think that direct contact is an issue with me, too.

So sometimes, I just like to make noises, faces, whatever, that could be interpreted as faking an orgasm but aren't meant to be, they're just what I feel like doing. Things feel good, I don't think I'm orgasming (but maybe I am; honestly I have no idea what an orgasm is supposed to feel like), and that's my response.…

My boyfriend is young and doesn't always ejaculate. I think it tends to happen when he's exerted himself physically earlier in the day. Sometimes it happens if we haven't had sex for awhile (we were long distance, for example).

I've had a lot of sex anxiety problems (I was raised in a pretty sex negative environment but I'm not religious now). It often hurts me to have sex (I get really tense) and sex can really freak me out (on screen, in person, thinking about it, etc.). I don't really have any advice but you're not alone.

Nah. I don't orgasm, to my knowledge, but sex matters quite a bit to me. It's validation, it feels nice sometimes, and I at least hope that it is something my boyfriend is getting pleasure from (I have no reason to believe he's not but my self esteem is pretty damn low so I'm not going to make any certain…

I have the best sex when I've smoked pot. It lets me relax and I feel everything more. I feel kind of guilty about it, but honestly if I think to the best sex I had it was probably a particular when I was high because I was high. :/

THANK YOU. I think I have had orgasms alone, but they aren't something I'd describe the way all these people in the comments are. I also might have high standards for what's awesome.

Hi, just here to say I understand and relate. I feel completely broken as well sometimes.

I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and am not sure if I've ever orgasmed and sex has been kind of a point of tension (not the orgasm part though) BUT I get that best friends that bone sometimes feeling too. Part of me feels like maybe I'm missing out on some constant passionate sexual bliss, but ultimately…

I spend plenty of solo time, still not sure if I've ever had an orgasm. We don't need you to call us sad and pathetic. Bye.

Maybe because some of us get really anxious about it? I'm sure that many women who don't have orgasms have thought about asking a gynecologist about it.

I am very unsure if I've ever orgasmed, alone or with my boyfriend. I've felt something of a climax before alone, sure, but I don't know if I'd describe it the way people tend to describe orgasms (the BEST FEELING OF LIFE OMG). I am also incredibly tense and quite honestly, I think I am somewhat afraid to let myself…

Eh. I think you look ready for bed if you show up wearing leggings. I'll give it to you with more substantial pants, but black leggings that have probably started to fade slightly from constant wear and washing don't look put together to me.

I think it's from a Delia's catalog.

If you can insert it. :( I tried for at least five or six periods and it pinched me and hurt and I just gave up.

My friend has fake tampons that you can fill with shots.

This definitely depends on where you live; some places have public restrooms at parks and they are great.

Every time the power goes out, my parents leave the clocks all blinking for ages on the stove and the microwave. If this voice activation makes that easier, bring it.