Yeah, I just learned this term. I've been using pan because I just feel like I could be down for anything given the right emotional connection. But this seems to make more sense.

Oh, yep. That sounds right. I mean, I do think that given singleness and with the fear of being murdered removed, I could enjoy a one night stand for the thrill of it, but I think there's parts of that idea. I now identify as pansexual, because I used to be really adverse to sex generally and I've taken to that…

Yeah. I mean, I think I could be fulfilled other ways too though. Even if he would just make the effort to verbally express desire or attraction, that might help. I mean, he'll tell me I'm pretty, but I kind of want /more/ than that, if that makes sense. I think there's more to the whole thing than the sex itself.

Interesting. I can see that in my relationship, for sure.

I IDed as asexual for awhile. It was attractive because I don't feel real sexual attraction until I get to know someone; I can't sit here and name off celebrities I'd like to bang. I don't ID that way anymore, but for awhile it felt very right.

This is interesting. I crave sex with my partner mostly because it makes me feel desired (seriously) but I do also find it generally enjoyable. It is really hard for me to initiate though and it caused a fight, and then he got mad at me for asking for it too often (he has completely forgotten about this shit; it…

Yep. I have to balance out all of the great things about our partnership with the fact that I'm not getting a crazy sex life, and decide if gambling on all those potentially more important things is worth it. I'm certainly not too old to start over, and sometimes I have the fear that I'm wasting my sexiest years,…

It can be hard. :/

Ugh. I'm 23 and I lived with my boyfriend for two years, we've been together four (we're now distance). We seriously went six months without sex and I felt like absolute shit about it. I still kind of do. I just don't feel desired and when we go so long it makes me really nervous. The best sex to me is when it's…

Nope, you're not. I can't stand all the hype over her while that song continues to play on the radio without any attention to how disgusting that line is and how musically unappealing it is.

...WHAT? I don't know who I thought this was but Thicke never would've been my guess.

I mean, I would be shocked and uncomfortable if someone unexpectedly kissed me like that.

...there are black women who are scrutinizing Beyonce's feminism, too. I'm sure this has been discussed on Jez, but I just cannot look past this oversight on Beyonce's part. This, coupled with the Challenger audio, indicates to me that Beyonce is not particularly socially aware of/sensitive about her actions.

If you read the Chronicle article, I think she says she IDs as more Libertarian. She also is a sociology/women's studies major, which is interesting to throw into the mix.

I totally have spent a ton of time reading about famous murders/murderers...for me, I think I just want understanding of how anyone could be so awful. But then, I end up totally frozen to my computer chair and feeling like if I move I'm somehow suddenly vulnerable to attack. I'm really paranoid though, so I think a…

THIS IS HORRIFYING.

I actually think the idea of wanting people to be comfortable with sex and sexuality is valid. Does she help this? No. But just because people have been having sex since the beginning of people does not mean that people are generally comfortable with their whole sexual selves, especially women.

...just women though. Okay.

Thanks for explaining this. Honestly, when I saw it last night I couldn't understand most of the words they were singing (I still can't) and it came off as a bunch of little girls playing with pink toys, which to me was not nearly as cool as the first one with their fancy mouse trap-esque contraption.

1) Pretty sure being a heterosexual male turned on by women who are half naked and fit Western beauty standards makes you the opposite of a "freak", unless he only means it sexually. I don't know, I still feel like using it sexually implies that you're into something outside of the norm and he seems to be fitting the…