yeah it might be worth a try? :) As annoying an answer as it is, I think it’s just trial and error.

PREACH. (You sound like you’ve really made some cool progress recently though. Kudos)

haha, happy to oblige! This situation rang a LOT of bells for me and it’s much easier to see unreasonable behaviour from the outside I reckon. Sorry for all the swearing though... i’ve clearly been around my family too much!

IMO if they’ve mentioned it more than once its something they are clearly seriously considering and not just a flippant suggestion so that would be a big factor for me. (In a positive way) Plus, if the situation was reversed I would absolutely want to do the same for them.

this comment says SO MUCH. <3

LOGS! Because if it all goes South and he gets all petty and complains to your superiors about you it would be useful to have documented behaviour of his that is unreasonable (and hope that you never need to use it). They don’t have to be all complicated, I just jot down the date/general time/place it happened and a…

I mean... it’s drastic but the post-chemo hair treatment I’ve seen time and time again to be most effective is not washing it for like 2 weeks or more if you can stand it (dry shampoo past this point helps) and kinda letting your hair “restart” its system. And then a hair oil treatment(argon, coconut etc.) left in…

Thing is though that’s not even the case, loyalty doesn’t even come into this, you’re just asking for basic decency. She fucking lied to your face THEN went behind your back to suggest your ex does things to make life shitter for you! WTF? If she’s so convinced its the wrong decision or that you are in the wrong she…

I watch it on Youtube :) (depends what country you’re in)

I like the “more fair” aspect to that especially! I’m gunna use that I think :)

AGREED!! :)

Well I think all smell is particulate, right? So my understanding is if you can smell it then there’s particles of that all up in there. Plus flushing the toilet alone launches fecal matter, and whatever else is in the bowl, for a few metres if I remember rightly (hence why phones are so dirty). In general there’s…

Well what do YOU suggest we talk about? Littering was my main take away from this long, informative well written post. Yup... Eughhhhh

No, no it’s FOR the public she’s doing this!! Were you not listening...

If you mean the top photo I think it’s light reflection from her tinsel collar thing. :)

You too!! :) Thanks for the giggle!

COTD!

hahahaha, god I love you.

hahaha, thanks!