I'm a guy and set it to show me only women, it still show's me dudes occasionally. I assume they are gay and cruising for internally closeted guys.

That's why I think that guy sent the dick pic with the job application.

I call fake. It reads like a 13 year old imagined the conversation

Dad's got rage issues, man. I like how she's a slut... but at least he's an idiot? Yeesh, I hope he bought him a nicer replacement laptop (I literally loled at son, I broke your laptop).

This is crazy. People do things all the time that don't work and yet they persist. Absurd human behavior doesn't "die out". I doubt any of these guys as sucessful. I actually don't even think always expect to be. They want to harrass/bother/chat with/ or make a point.

While I absolutely agree with you on point 2, I think that your understanding of "working" is not the one most people you're talking about are...working with. Like, if I try homeopathic methods for curing my cold, then it goes away, homeopathy "works"! If I pray that a man will love me, and he doesn't grow to love…

They are idiots. Really. Any guy could catfish them with a single pic of a woman.

Those are actually very good points. It's in fact very likely that many of the penis pictures are in fact trolling attempts, to see how the woman will reply, and get off on that.

Two things:

Unless both women in this conversation are named "Mikaela," this is FAAAAAKE

I even got a "you need to understand that you're single right now because you don't give nice guys like me a chance". And then after I told him to shove off, he started messaging me again 2 months later, with no sign of remembering our previous exchange. I could only conclude he was messaging every woman on the site…

I think the whole exchange is a sexual turn on for them. "A woman is thinking about my penis. Even if it's just for a second and in total disgust (even better!)" Sexual proclivities often know no bonds of logic or rationality.

LOL you clearly just need a dick. It would make you feel better. Hit me up and I'll send you a pic, honey. #shameless

I've said "No thank you :)" to lots of men on OKC.

It's a lot of "fuck you bitch" and "You don't have to be so rude" type messages I get back.

I'm pretty sure you responded to the wrong post. Blame Kinja. Or autocorrect. or something.

I just signed up for Tindr a couple weeks ago, and set it to only show me women. And still, about 1/5th of the time, it's a dude. Is this a thing Tindr does, showing you more men, just in case?

Not related but sorta related smart phone oh shit threads! GO!

You would think these guys would be embarrassed to be silly cliches. I wonder what it feels like to be so blissfully unaware. Just basking in privilege and entitlement.

I got a haircut today, and the woman who cuts my hair uses her dating life as small-talk while she's trimming. She was expressing frustration with some similar issues within the heterosexual online dating community.

I'm sure it's more extreme for women looking for women, but I'd be interested to see data about men…