This is a good and balanced read:

Racism is only real when it fits the anti-choice agenda. The mental gymnastics are mind blowing. Margaret Sanger did and said a lot of horrible things; too many for me to consider her a good person. But that doesn’t change that PP and the pill are a direct result of her efforts. It just goes to show that people are…

I totally feel that. With all of these new assault stories about trump coming out it’s really taxing especially when you’re naturally a really empathetic person. I wish the donald’s punishment would be to be left alone in a room full of Jezzies armed with used tampons and pitchforks

The Margaret Sanger argument is such a straw man! Yea she was a bad person but so were several of our presidents. We don’t exactly think we should be ripping up the Constitution now do we?

The funny thing is, before he even contacted me I got an email from her explaining that these things happened to her throughout her life and that she was proud of me for talking about them. Maybe you’re right lol I can’t think of anyone better to explain this to him

And this is why it so dismissive to think that racism is just an “old person” thing. Southern Poverty Law Center did a report that since Trump entered the race bullying and racism at schools across the country has increased by a huge amount. Anyone who thinks any of this will disappear once Trump is defeated probably…

Permits for non-moving installations are frequently denied for a variety of reasons: that they will block traffic, cause a disruption to businesses, distress the people inside the adjoining buildings, or that the reputation of the group that wants to have an installation is dubious. I’ve had quite harmless, non-Nazi…

Wouldn’t it be something if we could attach some sort of documentation to a dating profile in warning, such as copies of texts?

I’m here to help ;)

The neverending midlife crisis....ummmm, thanks, but no thanks.

Yup, I’m with you. The whole “aging out” thing is so gross and is really just a reflection of his obsession with his own mortality. Men are also told they’ll be desired well into midlife by younger women and they have conniptions when that isn’t the case.

I read one of those Buzzfeed “You have no idea how old you’re about to feel” listicles this week that featured things like how one of the Golden Girls was younger at the start than Courtney Cox is now. And others of a similar vein. It’s so interesting how we understand age and what constitutes being “old” and how that…

You just discovered Murder, she Wrote? How is that possible? And Yay!

saying that I have no personality

I’m not even going to comment on that dude, but I will say that 90% of the people in both of my grad programs were over 30. Not everyone takes the “traditional” college route.

Nah, I agree with Marillenbaum. The guy’s just insecure and controlling and wanted to bring her down to his level by insulting her.

Please find yourself a copy of Angela Lansbury’s exercise/lifestyle tape. I think it’s called something like Positive Moves.

Ick! Thank goodness you didn’t meet him irl. Enjoy this post from Dan Savage lecturing a similar middle aged toad. Fyi, some of the ads around the post may be nsfw.

you dodged a major bullet there. Sorry you had to deal with any of that. He sounds like Trump-lite. You’ll find someone who deserves you.

Well you know him and I don’t but in my experience sudden rants like that are generally coke motivated.