It doesn’t matter what size your labia is with this outfit. It matters whether you plan to move your legs more than one millimeter apart while wearing it. Because if your legs move, your labia move, and that bodysuit will end up cutting you in half in a way that is so painful that, you, being a man - can’t even…

Gotta disagree hard on this one. IMO Jagged Little Pill holds up as a top 10 90s album. It’s a viscerally angry album and Alanis is SO GOOD at getting her emotions across.

I don’t have a mom anymore. She died last Saturday morning after only two days in hospice. Over the past four months we made 7 trips to Houston (14 flights), 7 rental cars, 9 airbnbs...I worked so hard to get her top notch treatment and it just wasn’t enough. If you have a great mom - like I did - call her and tell…

I am in no way defending anything Felicity did in this shit show, but given the her crime was paying off crooked people to get her worthless children getting into colleges they neither deserved or gave 1 or less fucks about, is guns drawn really necessary?

Hi Jezzies, a few of you will remember that I was homeless and then finally got rehoused by the council into a flat last year. The block the flat is in is awful and full of drug dealers and that I am the only female in the block. I posted last year that my doctor had written to the council to say that I needed to be…

Michael Jackson crafted a persona as Peter Pan (right down to the name of his ranch) both as an expression of his never-grow -up sensibility and a cover for surrounding himself with young boys. A memorable thing was said on the night he died: Liza Minnelli, a close friend of his for many years, said it was an act;…

He discusses the fact that an “air-tight” investigation is somewhat impossible with child sexual abuse, since there’s typically no material evidence and there are few, if any, witnesses. It’s usually “he-said-she-said.” And he acknowledges that these men were CHILDREN when these crimes occurred, and there may be…

What do you make of the Jordan Chandler penis inconsistency? He said Jackson was circumcised and the autopsy report said he wasn’t.

It is never my intention to yuck anyone’s yum, but for me, sensuality has no place in the bedroom.

“...but the best sex... is lewd; it’s loud, and, most specifically, leaves little to no room for sensuality.”

I only get turned on when I think somebody is about to buy that turkey sandwich that’s been in the vending machine forever.

In an age of over-produced, over-hyped, over-congratulated garbage I feel we should honor her wishes to be left alone. She certainly deserves it. Beyonce can’t touch her vocal range and makes these same demands all the time.

“People have always loved to go after Michael. He was an easy target because he was unique.”

I remember when my husband first saw our baby. He had been kind of skittish about the whole thing (so was I-we were really young). The nurse said something like “hey Dad, come and see your baby.” He immediately went over and said “hi baby”. Another second passed and he started crying and repeating “hi baby! hi baby!”.…

Please stop defending him in any way shape or form. There are no mitigating circumstances with child molestation. He was a scumbag predator whose deeds rest solely on his own shoulders. Of course he had help-but no one was forcing him to destroy these boys’ lives.

So I’d say my first baby shower, or should I say my husbands baby shower, was a bit over the top.

Thank you for writing such a nuanced piece about adoption. I’ve read so many pieces over the years that only take one worldview into account, that I was expecting this article to make me angry. It did not.

Gabrielle, I just wanted to say thank you for writing this. As a white dad to two adopted black kids I feel strongly it’s important to talk about the realities of adoption and what it really means for everyone involved. The adoption fairytale is incredibly destructive and only serves to erase the voices of first…

Thank you for this! As a woman who has realized you can’t have it all without a trust fund or loss of your sanity, I’m realizing more and more that I may not be ready to be a mother until my fertility clock has run out. And I really do want to be a mother at some point.

Those aren’t blinders, it’s the constitutional right to direct the upbringing of one’s children. You really couldn’t do a better job of supporting the author’s point that this is a reproductive rights issue, reading all that and responding with “we really should make it easier to do involuntary termination of parental…