Did you miss the part where she says repeatedly that she is still in this relationship and working hard at it. I don’t see too many of the holier-than-thous offering details of their successful relationships. Probably because they think a relationship is flying halfway around the world with a Tiffany ring or some…

The thing is, they are guilty. You’ve established that. They can’t be any guiltier. Unless you already think they are lying in what they told you. What you really are looking for is either 1) things to make you feel worse or 2) things to hold over their head. Either way, it’s not conducive to really repairing a…

You sound like an adult who has lived life bravely and has the scars to prove it. Some of these folks sound like children who would dissolve into a million pieces if their rainbow unicorn ice cream should never melt.

But the thing is, you’ll always be wondering if there’s some other super secret email account out there you don't know about. The author is right. Building back trust is what is important. If you feel like you have to do random spot checks or be watching for any sign of backsliding, there's no trust and you need to…

I can get behind this. We could get rid of the boring states and finally add D.C. and Puerto Rico without having to change the flag. Obama could probably do it by executive orders, issue new maps and presto!

We get it. Some dumb editor suggested a clickbait Halloween costume story instead of the usual hard-hitting journalism that the high-minded Gawker Media reporters would prefer to be doing. So now you guys are basically trolling him/her.

I agree. Don’t see why it’s weird to stay friends. But yeah, it’s easy to backslide into sleeping together if there is still some lingering attraction. That’s really the only problem.

And someone needs to say in this day and age that Facebook is not a substitute for a phone call or a visit. It’s weird how so many people will write on a grieving person’s timeline, “Sorry for your loss. Call me if you need anything” and consider it enough. Like the grieving person should be preoccupied with checking…

As a black Catholic, I too found this informative. But I have to admit, I was worried to click on it when I saw the title.

best line in the whole piece? I submit:

I was going to say, if you are rocking a fro, bangs are a no go. Whether or not to get bangs is the ultimate white girl problem.

I think it’s delusion coupled with narcissism.

Exactly. If all you can offer to someone in a situation like this is 140 characters, you’ve already lost the story.

Except when you do prove yourself on that neutral proving ground, they just change the metrics of the goal you were seeking. Oh, you made X in sales? Well, he has an MBA. Oh, you have an MBA? Oh, well, he has more “real-world experience.” You truly cannot win unless you run the ship. The only way up is out. Look for…

And it also sounded like she was scolding her boss for not getting her the specs sooner. You often say “be a peach” if you’re slightly annoyed someone’s not doing something you want/need them to do. It’s like “be a peach instead of the useless asshole you’re now being.”

I bled the first time. And I had used tampons and been to the gyno! And used lube. Go figure. It was a shock because I hadn’t told the guy it was my first time.

The other crazy thing is they want these so-called virgins to be totally bangin. Like, forget plain Jane in the corner, they want a girl that all the other guys want but is for some crazy reason saving it for their douchey asses. But she’s not crazy. I mean, c’mon. It’s like expecting celery to taste like ice cream.

• It’s the first day of fall, but every single celebrity is still paddleboarding.

Yeah, it’s almost like people in other countries believe kids can be rehabilitated. But surely now they’re sorry because those girls went on to murder so many people when they got out... Oh wait.

Now they just look at your Internet search history.