I'm not into yaoi at all and neither are most of the queer/ lesbian women I know so that is all anecdotal for all we now.

Based on what you wrote though, it certainly sounds that way, even if it is not true. That is what I meant when I replied, that it will be bound to be interpreted that way, by others. I am personally not assuming anything, simply telling you how it comes off.

"Their" refers to couples in a heterosexual relationship whether or not its members identify as queer or non-monosexual. The relationship is still a heterosexual one. That's the point of what you and the other commenters were discussing up above. I was not talking about bisexuality or bisexual people. I'm not…

I respect where you come from and that you're completely upfront on your sexuality, but I would be wary of speaking for /all/ bisexuals. Also just so you're aware, your description of swinging wildly on a pendulum is what scares many people away from dating seriously those that identify as bisexual. Monosexual people…

So now you know what it feels like to be called a tranny as a slur or transexual as a derogatory term. We've had to feel this way our whole lives.

Because it's not their space. If you understand lesbian politics you'll understand it's not the same as gay male politics and there are complexities in the unequal treatments of gender in society not to mention differences- biological and socially constructed that effect the way marginalization works. Add to that the…

You just have to be honest and upfront about it. "I'm bi-curious but it's only a curiosity and that you don't desire to be in a relationship" Be upfront and don't lead anyone on into thinking you could give them more. If you're completely honest with them, they'll know what they signed up for and everything will be…

fuck off ya nasty troglodyte

100% agreement here

I'm curious too about the total BS part. I'd like to know more.

The world only exists to the extent of his penis.

Seriously though. What an ignorant commenter.

lol no. fail, try again.

Completely this. So it's okay for her to make videos where she degrades lesbian relationships because apparently they're not considered real or worthy of consideration? So by this logic cheating is not cheating when it's with a woman because she's not a fully actualized person but similarly an object and piece of…

this

um, no.

hello there ;)

basically. these articles reek of ethno/euro -centrism. just- I don't understand other cultures and their foreign food is icky to me

yaas dream pairing right here

At least American Idol is not based on the completely unrealistic and despicable premise of 24 women viciously tearing at each other and then turning around to grovel for the affections of a douchebag tool. Yet another reality show that makes women look so bad. I'll take AI over this any day.