If you are worried enough about not being one of those guys odds are pretty good that you are not. The best advice I can give is to pay attention to body language when you are talking to them. If they are interested they will show it by engaging in conversation and will often have the others with her join you in the…

Don’t be creepy about it and she won’t look for ways to GTFO.
If you ask her out and she says anything but “Heck yes! When?” then just drop it. Drop it from conversation, drop it from your thoughts and stop worrying about it.
We’re afraid, we have that reaction, because lots of men WILL. NOT. DROP. IT. They’ll assume…

Don’t be afraid of mayors. They’re just trying to run a city the best they can.

Also when they reject you (because everyone gets rejected some time) be super polite, thank them for their time, and tell them you hope they have a wonderful evening. Then leave them alone and don’t look over there ever again. The reason my friends say they are upset about getting hit on when they’re out is that the…

Yeah, this is something I try to be sensitive to. If I’m interacting on a site or something, I’ll end with “Drop me a line if you dig my profile, no worries if not” or somesuch. Something to say “Hey, if I’m not your cup of tea, no hard feelings on my end.”

And I’ll hear female friends of mine express a desire to just get a drink somewhere, but don’t because they don’t want to have to deal with someone trying to talk to them.

How tiring is it really to get asked on a date or approached by a guy who is not creepy? It’s not like there’s a line in front of a lady where 10+ dudes are taking turns. Don’t ask her out at the grocery store or subway or whatever, that’s tiring. Asking someone out in an acceptable social setting, not so much. If…

Yeah, that’s another one. Politely smiling or doing something friendly to a woman stranger that I’m not interested in will sometimes make me worry that she’ll think I’m trying to come onto her. Then I’m mad at myself for being cocky enough to assume she’d think that. lol, you know usually I consider myself to be…

Here is the solution to all of your problems:

That first letter writer very rapidly got up his own ass and I tl;dr’d. But his first actual paragraph, I definitely identified with.

Girl, same. And we’ve been carrying feminism too while these white women still can’t figure out how to stop voting for rapists and misogynists.

As a black female, voter it is tiring. One woman said her back is tired from carrying the Democratic Party. Especially when we cannot get them to acknowledge our support or issues that are important to us.

What are people like Glennon Doyle actually doing to thank Black women? And what are they doing to confront the obvious cultural rot in their own community that would lead them to do things like vote for a pedophile? Not rhetorical questions, I’m just sick of Black voters being expected to save White people from their…

As a white woman, even I have no fucking idea what 60 percent of white female voters in Alabama were thinking. Thank you, black voters, for getting the job done.

Gardner is one of my Sens and I’ll do all I can to send that fucker packing next time he’s up.

I welcome Democrats not taking their constituents for granted.

The island chain Isla Nublar is supposed to be part of ARE volcanic.

They are reallllllly reaching now.

At this point the island should be a nuclear test site but I have a feeling that will setup the much anticipated Kong vs Godzilla vs Dinos

Volcano on Isla Nubar?