Not the Cubans in Miami.

"Biracial men are free to claim as much or as little of their non-black identity as they want because it won't really have much of an impact on how they are perceived."

How can you find a man to be amazing but not be attracted to him? If I find a woman to be amazing I"m going to be attracted to her. It's amazing to me that women can separate the two things.

And why is that? Can't the brothas have a space to talk about their love lives without all their ex's pushing in with their Opinions?

Would you say that about Piggy if Kermit was abusing her? I bet not.

I would cut him some slack on the "colorblind" comment. If he was giving this interview for a national new source I understand why he would go for the safe word. If you think about, anything other than colorblind would be a problem given the context. If he said he preferred black women than he alienates his non-black…

How is Black Girls Rock any less exclusionary than Black Women Rock?

Really, you just compared this dude using certain words with Chris Browns misdeeds, really?

Or he could just mean females. Females is not a stand in for "bitch" "hoe" or "slut". You may believe that but that's because you don't know the male mind. If a man is with his homies and wants to say bitch or hoe he will say bitch or hoe. And if he wants to female then he will say female. They aren't necessary…

Nah, there are going to some who are offended by that. Best just to say "person".

See, women can't even agree on what's acceptable or not.

You put "yella" on the list as well.

But he's right. He has every right to do what he wants with his body just as women do.

This may be generational. For some of my older fam "my sista" and "my brotha" seem to come natural to them.

It's also the truth that a woman is a female but it's still an insult.

So a black man can't like light skinned or white women? Really?

Tolkien's stated "distaste" for allegory is irrelevant. LOTR is in fact one giant allegory for the history of western Europe. He pretty much admitted it as such.

You must be seeing things under a special light as "Bad" Mike was definitely light skinned Mike.

The idea that light skinned men were getting all the female attention and that they aren't good fighters are both myths advanced by insecure people. When was the last time you heard a black woman read a poem about her "Butterscotch Man".

It's a black man with skin lighter than your average black person. Much like a light skin black woman. Nothing more, nothing less.