I desperately need some good juju. I quit a not great job (at a hedge fund so i was making good money) in December to work at a local non profit with a great mission (the pay was not as great but the commute is amazing and again, great mission). I’m the EA to the President and she is a psycho. There is really no other…

I am heartbroken.

I have fuck all to contribute tonight. My dad is still in hospital being treated for the post-transplant lymphoma, my workload is so out of control I haven’t left the house all weekend, I am more broke than I have ever been in my life, and I fucking hate winter. Fuck it all.

I haven’t been to an SNS in literally forever but last night I got raped and I don’t feel comfortable telling anyone I know and I needed somewhere to say it out loud. Or type it, I guess. I’m not even sad, I’m just really angry and violated and I want all men to die in a fire.

Hey, yay, an earlier SNS post! That makes me happy. If anyone wanted some kitty photos, maybe this post will cheer you up!

Instead of reffing a double-header this weekend, I’m recovering from strep because some infected old crow decided to leave her home before she should have and BRAGGED about it in my presence. (I’m a magnet for throat/ear/nose/head infections - it doesn’t take much.)

I guess someone has to write the downer post. I’ll keep it short at least.

Just got home after 10 hours in the hospital, 5.5 of which were *after* I had had a scan which confirmed my apparently 12 week pregnancy ended a month ago. I had to wait that long for ANOTHER fucking probe up the heavily bleeding vagina to confirm what I’d already seen. My dad called my…

Ok beloved Jezzies- I am officially soliciting any and all good thoughts/prayers/juju/whatever. Month 2 of trying to conceive, and we’ve made a lot of tweaks this month to try to up our odds. Bought some lube that is supposed to mimic EWCM, had sex every day during ovulation period (which isn’t really supposed to do…

That’s a good dilemna, do you often spoil yourself with awesome things, or not so much?

My recent dilemma is how to shave my face. After seeing Black Panther, everyone had such cool beards, meticulously trimmed beards and I can grow a thick beard so I’m trying to sorta replicate what I’m seeing on all the Marvel…

We’re trying to get pregnant, and it’s only been a month and I’m going MAD. I should be ovulating in two days (maybe) but I have ZERO cervical mucus, and even then, my PCOS fucks with everything and God only knows if I’m actually ovulating at all. My cycle length is all over the place, and I only bothered to…

I haven't been doing complicated nail art lately bc I'm packing my apartment so half my polish is wrapped up and the end result would just get ruined anyway. But I can't go NUDE, so....

I am going to bake a chocolate cake tomorrow.

Let’s Laugh at a Loser’s Dating Life Tee Hee Hee: Episode 5... I think... whatever

I’m looking to start a business (product) but I’m not sure if I should take the plunge.

I did this really awesome purple and I have incredibly dark hair. What helped was having them do balayage technique which meant I didn’t have to commit to doing my roots for up keep. It’s pricier but i felt worth it. 

Thank you! It’s a lot of fun and I like not having someone standing over me telling me what I’m doing wrong.

Ariana is the 30 Rock very sexy baby joke come to life and it makes me v uncomfortable. That’s probably the nicest and most Jezebel-friendly way I can respond to Pete’s assertion. And yes, I understand that taste is subjective.

They should do an episode that shows the grim reality of what happens in the scenario of working people where one of them is loafing on chores.

I’m glad she’s pushing back on some of it because to be honest it’s one of the things that’s disappointed me about the show, that Rainbow seems to work the ‘second shift’ of all the childcare/housework and that dynamic doesn’t seem to be interrogated very much. She’s supposed to be an example of this strong 21st…