You begged him to tell you, and he told you. It sucks that it hurt you, but that one was on you.

I don’t think you would be liable since you didn’t give them the alcohol and it’s not your property, but you could call the police non emergency line to complain about a loud party with possible underage drinking. If they love Trump, let them deal with the police under him.

Double post.

I get what you’re saying, and FLDS is a complicated matter, but it is certainly not all polyamorous people. I’m in Michigan, there aren’t many Mormons, even of the normal type.

Well, people could be interrogated about their relationships as they are now with immigration, and a lesser extent with abortion, to be sure it is not coerced.

I understand. Married to one partner for four years, but we’ve been together twelve, and my other partner and I are very committed for two years so far. I really wish I could put my newer partner on my health insurance. He is a veteran with VA, and it sucks!

This makes me happy. I’m married for four years, and in a committed relationship for two years. My husband dates other people. I have a live-in boyfriend. We are a very happy family unit, though I’m sure it confuses the neighbors.

Honestly, I don’t worry about ants. They never cause much damage to my plants, and they are pollinators too. Currently they’re all over my mint flowers and they’re good for peonies. (The mint is contained to a crack in an unmortared rock wall; when I see mint seedlings elsewhere I just pull them).

I’m sorry.

Make some time for yourself without them. If that means staying up late, or getting up earlier, or finding a time to leave the apartment without them and just ...be away, not for work or an errand.

I love the bergamot and lime scent! It works pretty well for me.

My favorite small things are playing with my dog, seeing my garden grow, putting on a mask that dries like clay or that you can peel off, and giving myself a manicure with a cuticle oil that smells like summer.

I am proof that you can see just one roach! It was spring and very wet, and we saw a small brown roach, a baby basically. We caught it and called the landlord. They checked for holes and put some bait traps around, but there were no more roaches. We lived there for two years before and two years after with no…

I would suggest longer in Edinburgh, though I haven’t been there in about ten years. I loved it and found it a really manageable size for walking to most things I wanted to do around the old town and downtown areas.

I’m in zone 5b in Michigan and this spring I’ve been working on turning the grass on my backyard hill into a meadow with native plants. I’ve been so worried about the seeds being washed away down the hill and ending up with a really lush area at the bottom, but this week I’m finally starting to see seedlings that…

I know what you mean about being focused on suicide but not having suicidal ideation yet.

I use that MI paste! It was recommended by my dentist when I had a cavity in the side of my tooth repaired, as the space between those teeth is really difficult to floss. So far, I haven’t gotten another cavity. It seems to be working? I can’t say if it helps with white spots though, as that’s not my issue.

Part of it is just estrogen’s effects on collagen, and there is not much you can do about it. The network of collagen which is the supporting structure allows some fat through. I’ve had cellulite since I was nine or ten, and I wasn’t a chubby kid.

I’ve replaced about 30% of my backyard lawn with native meadow plants for about $200 and a weekend of me doing work. I now don’t water, don’t fertilize, dont weed, don’t rake, and mow that area just once a year.

Grass doesn’t do as much for erosion control in most cases as native plant communities. I’m replacing the lawn on my hillside with a mixture of meadow plants native to Michigan, in part because the grass is suffering frost-heave damage and sliding down. The root systems of many native plants are far deeper than the…