So, use of force and three cops were needed to calm someone down who was pissed about plastic silverware? Also, did anyone catch that one cop kind of looked like he was putting his hand around her neck? What the hell was that about? We need to have a nice long look at our national soul because we have collectively…

What are you talking about? The shooter stopped and looked at his gun, probably a jam or to change his magazine and the guy ran out of cover, wrestled with the guy, tossed the rifle over the counter, then the shooter fled. He in fact did stop the shooter from shooting anymore people at the Waffle House.

Nude. Gunman. Tennessee. Waffle House.

absolutely no need to apologize - we need to swap stories some feel less alone. I hope you will find good source of treatment and wellness support soon.

Thanks! :)

I hope you will find the remedy to being stuck and a way out soon. Sending well wishes your way :)

I did some digging on psychological abuse. It definitely feels like we would be going down that road - him setting the terms, me bending for him, him being hypercritical, getting me feeling low and inadequate. I’m looking forward to working out other conditions that led to this outcome in therapy :)

“If you were all of these things you would have heard about it long before then.” THIS. Thanks for the tips.

Buying, reviewing and then returning is too complex of a process for the majority of MAGA morons

White boys getting triggered and shooting up shit weekly. I bet they will blame opioids.

I have read that people who undergo Rolfing report similar things; the body stores memories in physical tissues, and the memories can be released and relieved by body therapies.

So......buy it, review it, return it.

It’s like that story, Going On a Bear Hunt-

What other commenters said. I’m sorry that this guy turned out to be a horrible human being. He sounds mean-spirited, if not outright sadistic. Fuck him. I’m sorry that he messed with your head to that degree. If you can stomach it, I suggest you google “psychological abuse” or go straight to Shahida Arabi’s work on…

He sounds emotionally abusive to me. Is there any chance you are also heartbroken because something was triggered by his cruel and carefully directed comments?

so i have a general recommendation to share with any fellow jezzies who struggle with the aftermath of childhood/developmental trauma: a book my therapist recommended called “healing tasks: psychotherapy with adult survivors of child abuse” by james kepner. you can find copies of both the first and second editions…

Not me personally, but my best friend is moving to Seattle in July for a wonderful job opportunity at a time when she feels her life needs a refresh. I and her other closest friend recently had babies, to whom she is a wonderful aunt, and she has a niece and nephews of new own and family, and the change of pace and…

Thank you <3 it came down to me not being as focused on applying research to my work as he thought I needed to - which is natural, because he’s a full-time student/not working, while I work full-time and am a part-time student. Everything you said is SPOT ON.

That guy was terrible news and you are SO LUCKY to be rid of him. He “determined you didn’t have any integrity?” He broke up with you and gave you “cutting [professional] criticism” in the process? So, just to be on the record, he is a horrifying jerk and you should NOT reach out to him.

Check-out my pic! I’m living large (and I’m a poor so probs those prices are out the poor’s league).