I think the crazy thing about the priesthood is how much of an open secret this is. It’s like the perfect place for a closeted man to go. Everybody knows that, gay, straight and otherwise.

Suicide is about ending your individual pain, murder is about punishing the other person. He wasn’t calling her whore and trying to pressure her into reconciliation to end his pain, he was doing it to control the situation. He is alive and entitled to court dates and meals and interviews with attorneys. She is…

Toxic masculinity often comes with a scorched earth policy. “If I can’t, then nobody can.”

If you study up on narcissism (the personality disorder one, not the cutesy name for someone who is egotistical one), you start to understand a little.

Family annihilators are a specific kind of abuser/narcissist- they see their family members as extensions of themselves. Its likely he planned to kill himself, and maybe got scared and backed out, or tried to get the cops to kill him. Someone like this assumes that if they die, it’s better to take their family with…

I know. If every man who thought about murdering his children and their mother would just kill himself instead, it would be a better world.

There’s something about “Motivational Speakers” which I can’t quite describe that makes me not trust them. Scam artists at the basic level who tries to show people they have “life” figured out. But I see them as people with deep dark secrets which they don’t want to see the light of day.

In these situations, I always ask, Why not just kill yourself?

Everytime I hear a tragedy like this I always wish some psychiatrist would explain what drives a person to do it...because I just don’t get it.

Yeah I’m seeing this more as a Omarosa situation here. She was ok keeping silent until it affected her.

Nah fam. For whatever reason, she agrees with the fucked up ideals of the Trump admin and the garbage people associated with it, but that doesn’t really take away from the fact that she’s still a victim and her body needs to be respected. Corey is a bitch.

I’m so torn between “she didn’t deserve that” and “lay with dogs, you’re bound to get fleas”.

Or his mom could have had a little affair with a black man. Dad sees Mike when he comes out and confronts mom. They try to make it work but after four years dad can’t deal with seeing the product of his wife’s cheating everyday and he gets out of there never to have contact again. That actually makes more sense than…

I love how it’s not a pressing issue though? Honey. If I looked different from every other member of my household I would have had that test done years ago. He KNOWS he’s black and he’s afraid to admit he IS black.

If he is Indonesian so am I. (Psst...my parents are Black.)

Sure, a passing grandparent can produce an obvious child. But not this damn obvious. The chances of this person being, let’s say, less than a quarter Black are almost nil. Like...look at this man. He’s delusional and his family is crazy.

I mean, true.

Not necessarily. If one of his grandparents was passing, it’s not unreasonable for a down-the-line baby to have a substantially darker complexion than both parents and all siblings. Just because the correct genes didn’t express for a while doesn’t mean they upped stakes and wandered off into the fields of whiteness…

This mofo is fucking adopted. Sure, there is a chance that his mother is his biological mother and he is only half Black, but that is the least likely truth, based on the way he looks. His family needs to stop lying to this man. They have made him embarrassingly delusional.

The guy’s father left when he was like four and lost all contact with his father’s side of the family. I feel like Maury (and soap operas) was made for this type of stuff.