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Ooh! Same age, also have combo skin and the occasional pimple (usually on my jawline when I’m on or about to get my period, gotta love hormonal adult acne :/). On days when I need foundation (redness or period pimples), my favorite foundation is Revlon Colorstay 24hr. I love that shit and you can buy it at the

That sounds incredibly draining. Good for you for being able to step away from that relationship for your own wellbeing. Hopefully she’s able to recognize and take responsibility for her behavior, but in the meantime you’ve got to live your life.

Omg. I feel like there is some mommyblogger out there who has done this and I am torn between wanting to search and know for sure vs wanting her to absolutely exist in my imagination.

Why isn’t this on a Buzzfeed “62 Easy DIY Gifts Under $20” list?!

That’s rough, especially if she’s codependent on you—and I say that, shamefully, from the flip side. We can be a huge burden to loved ones if we don’t get our shit straightened out.

It was a dirtbag/armchair psychologybag morning!

I would watch the hell out of the Roberts family biopic. I love watching dysfunctional families (that aren’t mine) from a distance.

AN INSIDER!! The little details are always the most interesting, thanks for sharing! Also, howwww did I not know he’d managed her since she was 12 before marrying her? Squick.

I’m not a shawl person either (they always seem to hang strangely on me) but those sound divine! Elegant and luxurious but also practical-I can absolutely picture Betty Draper rocking one.

Right?! Those capes look cozy AF. (Faux) fur capes should become A Thing for winter weddings. You can keep the friendships with your bridesmaids or hours of outdoor photos when it’s freezing and we’re wearing cocktail dresses. Not both.

Have you seen this interview he did with Amy Sedaris? Amy Sedaris Interviews Justin Theroux. (I hope I did that correctly...it’s Interview magazine and totally worth a search if I failed!) Someone else linked to it a while ago and it made me like them both even more. I want to be their third wheel at the whole foods

But are Drake + Justin Bieber’s Dad doing a collab?

This is one of the reasons I’m set on keeping my last name (aside from just feeling attached to it!). Changing names on licenses, accounts, etc is a huge pain in the ass. Trying to change your name on publications would be a nightmare!

Absolutely heartbreaking. This poor woman’s story sounds like something straight out of The Cider House Rules. And that was set in (if memory serves) the 1940s—is this really how far back we’ve slid in regards to women’s health?

My main takeaway from the whole thing was:

Completely accurate. I hop onto the counter, lock eyes with the UO employee, then bat everything off onto the floor like “...what.”

I was also ashamed to recommend Urban Outfitters, but it’s true: some of my favorite basic black dresses (oh fuck it, some of my favorite clothes) have come from that hipster warehouse!

For tshirts, Target! They’re cheap (usually $9-15; you can pretty much always catch a sale), decent quality, and if you get the nicer fabrics (I like the feel of the ‘slinky’ ones and they tend to last longer anyway) you cannot tell the difference between a Target tee and a mid-range designer like Theory or J. Crew. I

Idk if Anthropologie switched buyers or creative directors or what, but it seems like their stuff has gotten so...matronly. Anthro was my splurge store for years because they sourced such unique and well-made clothing: my sister and I still trade dresses and tops we bought there over a decade ago. It’s a shame it’s

Only relevant re: Johnny Depp not aging well.