Obligated is the wrong choice of word. No adult is obligated to do anything for another adult especially sexual acts. You're treading into dangerous territory with that kind of mindset. Basically two people have to be sexually compatible or chances are higher they will break up. In fact it's one of the top 3 reasons…

Sadly these neat freaks do exist. I have three generations of women in my family (starting with my granny down to my sister) as evidence. As a messy person in a super neat family it was always dam annoying and they can't comprehend how I don't mind living in a mess or clutter. It's all about priorities. Personally my…

So she was hurt by the fact that her actions may hurt others. um not to be rude but she could have taken that as a learning moment (or you as a teaching one?) to alter her behaviour/mannerisms. It seems like her self-loathing afterwards became more important than how she was making others feel.

There may be instances when someone is adopted or has a really diverse background so you can give the option of don't know/unsure. I've come across that category to answer questions in surveys. Though I'm not sure if this would complicate or skew your results.

LOL interesting sense of humour you have... oh who am I kidding I chuckled :P

I see. I thought you were implying that.

Nope second marriage for them both. They were married in their 50s, I read, so that would be in the 70s.

Finally someone who GETS IT. I may just quote you :) Did a far better job of explaining it than I did.

I hear that. My grandparents on one side are divorced and the other ones really should have been. Also the last part *sigh

The feminist movement didn't appear out of thin air in the 70s you know. It's been around, in a sense, since the suffragette movement. So your reasoning is flawed. lol

You're doing yourself a disservice. You should have them help out with laundry. I've been doing my own since I was 10 (by hand) and everything was fine. Although be warned teach them properly first or some clothes will become discolored ;P

LOL I'm interested that this never occurs to most people. But then again I come from a single parent household and we all did our own laundry (me from the time I was like 10 and none of this privileged machine wash either, by hand at first). That's the way I think I'll do it when in a committed relationship. Plus I'm…

Is it because you have to do laundry by hand? That's the way I do some of mine but I still like doing laundry :) To each their own :)

FOR ANYONE OFFENDED/VIEWS THIS AS PROBLEMATIC AND WANTS TO TAKE ACTION:

I know what you mean. I don't mean that all people that are shits or abusive came from abusive environments or homes. I am just saying that there is a good portion of people that do. And with the mental health care being privatized and not accessible to many that need therapy or rehabilitative services, they tend to…

A few instances of it occuring in the reverse is not the same as institutionalized or systemic racism. False equivalency. But I was not aware you were a black woman based on your comments. My mistake.

Here let me fix that for you: Good fucking God, decent, empathetic offended white ladies. *I, yologuy, don't give a fuck about blackface."

But to portray cosplay it is not necessary and many people do not colour their face a different shade...unless maybe the character is an unusual colour like blue or something. And how come many people of colour that dress in costumes of white characters don't don whiteface? If it was a good costume to begin with…

Also the lightening is NOT the same thing. False equivalency aka comparing apples to oranges there hun. Let me educate you for a second. Back in the day slaves which were lighter skinned and had more "white" features were treated better and were slaves in the house as opposed to in the fields. They were still slaves…

Well let's apply your logic to a male's sexist act. The most offensive thing is women's reactions. If they would just consider the male's intent when they engage in sexist actions or behaviours they wouldn't be blowing things out of proportion and sexism would be a thing of the past. It's those darn womyns keeping…