Punching someone in the nuts in self-defense is not sexual assault.
Punching someone in the nuts in self-defense is not sexual assault.
Men don’t get harassed sexually or touched inappropriately in general. Most of us think we’d like it, but don’t realize that nobody likes to feel small.
No man turns on a woman like a woman. Not even close. Trump couldn’t dream of doing to women what you do to each other.
That is what I was taught by every man and woman in my life when I was a child. It was never off limits if it came to protecting myself. For funsies - yes, then it was off limits because you shouldn’t hit or punch anyone, anywhere on their body just for fun.
It’s not on the victim of a literal fucking crime to tell the perpetrator “I am not ok with you committing this crime against my person.” It’s on the perpetrator to not do something criminal. The same goes for these boys.
Sounds to me like they knew she hated it, but she lauged it off to belong. Going back to my point: If you don’t want to get hit in the balls, don’t touch a woman in a way that she doesn’t like.
I hit a boy in the balls with my lunchbox once. It wasn’t as hard as it could have been because I was holding back. My dad was proud of me for doing that because the boy was an asshole. Both of my parents wished I actually hit him as hard as I could.
I can’t understand how you know how bad it feels to get kicked in the nuts, but also how childbirth feels. It sounds like you haven’t been kicked in the dick enough in your life.
Listen, “if you don’t want to get punched in the balls, don’t touch women when they don’t want you to” is a good rule of thumb for life. As someone who has both acted like an asshole and been punched in the balls for it, I’ll give this a pass. It sure as hell taught me a lesson.
What kind of logic is yours? Seriously? How about the man who fucking sexually assaulted me will never understand the pain he put me through over and over again? So what should be done to him? What is the equivalent of that pain?
You know, after, what, dozens? hundreds? of sexual assaults—and let’s be clear, by law, that is what grabbing someone’s butt without consent is—I have no problem with this. She was defending herself from ongoing assault and gaslighting, and that’s what she came up with.
Dude here. Kicking a guy in the balls is a pretty bad thing to do, but then again so is repeatedly grabbing a girl’s butt. Seems like a pretty appropriate response to inappropriate/unwanted touching.
No.
As a ball-haver, I’ll say this. Getting hit in the balls is awful. But if men are going to be bigger and stronger (generally, there are a lot of women that could kick my ass in a fair fight) then women absolutely should go after the balls when threatened. I taught my sister that, I taught my nieces that, and it’s the…
I’m sorry, having your friends laugh at you being routinely groped and so feeling like the best you can do is laugh along is “putting up a front you can’t maintain”? Fuck that. You grab me, you get what you get.
“...But this is a lie.” Yes, yes, yes it is. Because as Germaine Greer put it, women have no idea how much men hate us. They lie to us about it all the damn time, so that we might believe them and trust them and take care of them and feed them and fuck them and look nice for them. All the while they keep their boots…
Why is it that the top comment on a HamNo piece is always some garbage shit like this by a teenager who just learned what electoral politics are 11 months ago? Let me guess, you’re also the only one smart enough to realize “both parties are basically the same” and that you’re just rooting for the whole thing to burn…
*sigh* still making shit up.
Those polls are meaningless you stupid fuck. How about we spend our time blaming the people who voted for a fascist, instead of pilling on Hillary for not being hip enough. The DNC didn’t nominate her all by its self, way more people voted for her in the primarys. So she won the nomination, that’s how it works. Also,…
Yup. Same. I’m just focusing my energies on the people out there who want to do good things, the people targeted by this madness, and — as the popular vote showed — that’s the majority.