Rihanna?

I don't think I have this exactly, but maybe a variant of it, where I constantly rub the ends of my hair on my face, sniff them, twirl them, pick at them, pull on them, until they are extremely frayed. The ends of my hair always look awful. It's not as bad because I don't have bald spots or anything, but still…

Honestly, I think posting links to feminist-oriented porn on a post about porn is fine — it's in line with the site's message, and the site has posted to pornography before (e.g. http://jezebel.com/i-watched-all-…). I think you should try to make sure the preview image isn't NSFW, but otherwise it's not a big deal.

Sure, but you liked them enough to date them — presumably a friendship could work out really well even though a relationship didn't. It depends on each case, but I don't think adopting the standard that exes shouldn't be friends would be making progress.

But just because one of you didn't want a relationship doesn't mean that everyone should abandon all contact in these situations, and even if that's necessary sometimes, it seems like a ridiculous standard to uphold in every case... is it really so bad for exes to want to remain amicable or be friends? Just because…

I mean, if UTIs aren't an issue for you, then maybe this advice isn't for you either. Some of us don't enjoy spending hours in doctors' waiting rooms four times a year waiting for an antibiotic. Giving advice on how we can avoid ending up in that situation isn't woman-shaming, it's freeing up time in our lives so we…

Singularity University is a corporation, not a real university (according to their website). She also isn't listed as CEO/founder on the Fellow Robots website, just on her personal LinkedIn page... so who knows.

Actually, it was a pretty common refrain among Sony employees that they didn't want to keep making Sandler movies and felt it was a waste of money. And Hollywood executives aren't always the smartest and most rational bunch.

Given that you claim that kids are pretty much entirely the product of how they're raised and parented, why should we punish kids in any circumstance then? Clearly kids should face repercussions sometimes, but if you're going to say that you shouldn't punish your kids for your bad parenting skills, but your kids only…

Then why punish kids in any circumstance, since Tracy says above that kids are pretty much entirely the product of how they're raised and parented? Clearly kids should face repercussions sometimes, but if you're going to say that you shouldn't punish your kids for your bad parenting skills, then it seems like creating…

Maybe they mean they have other footage, like of her being racist?

Definitely post.

Most foreign names are not as easy for English-speakers to pronounce as Cho, and I think you know that. Furthermore, whether or not a foreign name is easy to pronounce (even though there's a clear correlation between pronouncability and being part of the dominant culture, as I think I've demonstrated), it will still…

Yeah, it's astonishing this isn't a bigger issue, given how the inroads that were made in prior decades are quite clearly being lost now. I get that it might seem small, because it might not seem to have that many everyday, real-world implications, but I think that it does have a lot of implications for how we think…

Well, then I think the right response is to change that paradigm and make it more equitable, and the only way to do that is to either give our children their mothers' names or some combination of mothers'+fathers' or come up with a new naming system altogether. For instance, couples could choose the last name of a…

Yes, but since we speak English, we tend to prefer names that come from British or (to a lesser extent) continental European ancestry, because they share the same pronunciation. This is a privilege that people of that ancestry have that others, particularly people of color, do not, and to keep privileging those kinds…

That's not what it says. Instead, it's:

So if a woman's name isn't truly hers, I guess a son's name isn't truly his either, because it's also his father's? Oh wait, that doesn't make sense, and is in fact a sexist argument. It also erases the people who were given hyphenated last names or whose mother's name was incorporated into their own, like me.

Really?? Don't you think saying that about changing a name from Alamuddin to Clooney carries some racist implications? (Another reason I don't like this argument for changing your last name upon marriage — not only is it sexist, it's often racist as well, given that the most pronounceable or highest-class names are…

But more women change their last names now than they did in the 90s (in the 90s it was 23% of women who kept their own names, now it's only 8%). So I think we're actually going backward.