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I disagree. I think her input was valuable and I was glad to hear about it. It's not like her writing a comment is taking away any space from other individuals with prison experiences. It's not like my appreciating her comment takes away from my possible appreciation of someone else's recounting of their time in

I don't think she was on The L Word...

I don't like being ejaculated into or onto, so my partner typically comes on himself. I guess it also depends on the position, but it's usually not a problem because I usually come first, and then — since I also apparently can't have multiple orgasms and I don't like any inner vaginal contact after orgasm — I help him

Yes, but we still need to interrogate WHY women feel "weird" in a suit without makeup while men wear suits all the time without having to spend 30 minutes "doing" their face, and draw attention to the fact that this is an inequity that exists. Not just accept it and move on.

Has anyone ever noticed how different men and women look when they go on talk shows? Men always look super comfortable; they lay back in the chair, they spread their legs. Women always lean forward, cross their legs, suck in their stomachs, position their elbows awkwardly on their knees, keep brushing their hair out

Thanks, this is helpful. I think a complete guide would still be great to have though.

Sorry, but you don't get what I mean. I don't have trouble with casual sex (otherwise I wouldn't be asking), I have trouble with going out and finding people. By "feeling pathetic" I mean going to bars by myself, because sometimes I might want to go find someone outside of the context of going out with friends. (I

Okay, I have a request: Can Jezebel write a "How to have casual sex" guide for women? I recently turned 21 and I don't know much about the social acceptability of going to bars alone, etc. I'm pretty attractive and otherwise wouldn't have much trouble finding people to fuck. How do women find attractive people to have

This sidebar that says "Sex - Fashion - Dirt Bag - Dating - Advice" is honestly kind of infuriating to me. Jezebel writes about a lot more than whatever fits into those categories, and the Jezebel audience wouldn't be drawn here if it were otherwise. It's insulting to the readership to pretend that themes like

Goddammit. WHERE'S MO GLO.

No, she mentioned playing "doctor," which is an incredibly common game among children. Not comparable to molestation or sexual violence. A strong word like "rehab" applies to one and not the other.

Except for the fact that lawyernurse was clearly referring to actions parents should undertake early on, not after criminal acts have been committed. She said this several times, so evidently you're the one being willfully dense (and, hypocritically, extremely patronizing). It wouldn't make sense to call it

No, she said "no" at another point before that.

It depresses me to see women change their last names. And don't say "but it's their father's name anyway!" — such a cop-out. Yes, the naming system is inherently patriarchal, so let's change it. Let's think not just of whether to keep our names when we marry, but about how we name our children. Isn't it sad that women

So you're suggesting that the husband should be the "decider" because of his penis? The argument being, "Well, SOMEONE has to be!" That's the most idiotic thing I've ever heard. Why not have both sides present arguments supporting their position and eventually come to a compromise? You know... the way conflicts are

I'm with you. Family Guy made me feel bad when I was a little kid too.

Definitely. That's what I was thinking throughout this whole article.

YES PLEASE

I've actually developed a theory that the best directors/creators are ones that constantly innovate and never stick to the same schtick. And you're right that over-confidence might be the root of the problem.

Here's the question, though: do you experience the same "X"s when someone goes unconscious or into a coma? i.e. are the "lights going out" attributable to, like, eyes no longer focusing on anything, or does it really seem like there's a *person* behind there? Is there something unique to death — that you can just tell