I feel this. I’m a tall, large-breasted fat woman who carries all her weight in her ass, thighs, hips, and tits. I have a well-defined waist that I like to show off. I can’t wear shorts because my thighs are fucking huge. Sundresses are too short for me because of the fat legs. But maxi dresses? Ones that come in at…

Oh, I’ve tried everything. I even own a NoNo. It just keeps growing.

I shave my stache and my chin pretty much everyday. Yes, I get stubble. I hate it. But plucking takes like 3 hours and I just don’t want to waste that time. I’m not a candidate for waxing because my hair grows back so quickly I’d be in there every two-three days. One day I’ll get the laser hair removal.

Because you are literally invisible to everyone around you when this doesn’t happen to you. In my personal experience lack of the negative street harassment experiences has also meant lack of any positive interactions with men (dates, kindness, decent sexual encounters, friendship, etc.). You just don’t exist. No one…

I guessed Adam Levine.

I’ve got a super lady body (big hips, big thighs, big tits, defined waist) and I didn’t take birth control until I was 18. I developed really early and was full grown by 14, so I can’t blame birth control. (And I’ve always been super bummed that I can’t pull off cigarette pants and a peter pan collar.)

Just to chime in about Spanx - I love them. I’m fat but I’m more hourglass than anything, and whenever I would just wear tights I would get a roll around my waist - a roll I don’t usually have. High-waisted spanx tights have been amazing because they smooth everything out and eliminate that weird roll (allowing me to…

Same. I assume it means I’m hideous. I’ve always been the girl who got pulled aside by dudes so they could pick my brain about ways to get with my friends, but no one was pulling friends aside to ask about me. No dudes in cars, no groping, no inappropriate comments from anyone. I learned real quick that even though I…

I’m thinking a Blue Apron type thing for sandwich fixings and cleaning supplies.

If for some reason you just have to go out take pumped breast milk with you.

It’s far from new. There are tons of girls writing in to the Large Labia Project who just hate themselves because they heard some idiot boy call long labia “roast beef curtains” when they were like 13.

You’ve never heard this before? It’s what boys on the playground call labia.

I was alive in the 80s. I still think it looks terrible.

You have to be trolling. Having kids is a HUGE burden - even people who have children will admit that.

40 isn’t all that old. My grandmother had my mom at 42. She passed away at 86 - meaning my mom was 44 when my grandmother died. And yes, my grandmother got to see my mother get married and have children.

Yeah, I used to wear GIANT docs to goth and metal shows back in the day. And I still think huge boots with breezy shorts looks dumb.

Wow, Beyonce must really be trying not to get stomped while pushing her way to the front of the stage, then.

I have never understood the "giant, heavy black boot with light, loose shorts" look.

Yes, won’t someone please think of the bigots. /s

I was thinking the same thing. No one over a size 4 goes to Coachella?