Honey, as a married woman who has dealt with this for a very long, long time - you need to talk to him about this and make sure there are clear steps, compromises, and follow-through on both your parts. Does that mean opening up your relationship? Maybe. But that could also mean ending your relationship.

Talk to him about this. Because it doesn't get better on its own. It just gets worse and worse and worse until one day you realize you'll never have the sex life you want and you can't do dick about it. Don't do what I did and hope and hope and HOPE that'll he'll get it. He won't. And you'll be miserable.

You SAY you aren't what society expects looks-wise, but I have to call utter bullshit. You have to be conventionally attractive. HAVE. TO. BE. You don't get attention from dudes if you aren't.

I do that all the time and I'm married. Mr. Wheezer doesn't seem to mind.

I pluck my 'stache when my husband is around. I should probably stop that.

Coach Demott told student Enzo Amore that he hopes he dies.

You're getting piled on here. Just chiming in to say - that "eye for an eye" stuff? It worked on me. I distinctly remember chasing one of our cats around the house because I wanted to pull his tail. I'd pull it, my mom would tell me no, that hurts the kitty, etc. I'd do it again, she'd tell me no. Finally, probably…

Do yours do that thing where they see the spray bottle, squint their eyes, and continue being bad?

Did your mother already have kids? If so, no, it's not a shock that she got pregnant again. First time at 35? I've a better chance of getting struck by lightning.

K.

Holy shit. When/where was this?

Oh, honey, NO. It is so far from empowering to care for a seriously ill loved one. It's draining and exhausting and can make any underlying personal issue (not even relationship issue) 100 times WORSE because everything gets upended. It's terrible. Absolutely terrible.

I'm fascinated by the idea of sex clubs. I've never been - I never got laid in high school/college/grad school and I feel like I missed SO MUCH sexually that I'll never get to experience now (my husband's libido is pretty much non-existent.) Then I remember I have a serious case of fugly and realize I wouldn't get…

Yeah...I saw that and just started laughing/crying. I've got insanely large breasts - so large that I have to wear a bra under my swimsuit just to keep from being obscene. It's a beautiful suit, but it sure as hell isn't something EVERYONE can wear.

I feel you. I'm turning 35 at the end of the month and I don't have kids. My husband and I were going to start trying a few years ago...then he was diagnosed with cancer. So we had to get that taken care of first. We never even got the chance to TRY.

Right? I'm going to be 35 at the end of the month and my husband & I would love kids. We never got to even try to have a baby due to his cancer (in remission). I'm too old now and we're not going to bring financial ruin on ourselves for IVF. We're just going to have to deal with never being parents. I can't imagine…

Yep. I had to sign a contract at work stating that if I came up with anything that even remotely applies to my job ON MY OWN TIME it's owned by the company and I can't use it/sell it/profit from it at all. If we didn't sign? Well, they just wouldn't employ us any more.

Please elaborate on "trial by mayonnaise". (Like...covered in it? Swimming in it? Wrestling in it? Making it? Eating it? Drinking it? Drinking it anally?)

This. Husband & I have gotten HOSED the past few years in taxes due to our combined incomes and not having any deductions like kids or a house. I shrug my shoulders, write the check to Uncle Sam, and keep on voting Dem.

I've only had one really horrible experience with a waitress. I've never worked food service (outside a bookstore cafe) but I worked retail for about a million years when I was younger and I'm now overly nice to every service worker I encounter. Shit is hard and people are assholes, so I try to be nice.