Yep - I don't even usually notice the whitewashing everyone complains about, but after seeing that image next to the first one of her… wow. She doesn't even look like the same person.

Wait a minute… this is actually a thing?! Guess what I'm watching tonight instead of bitching that the Simpsons is cancelled due to a stupid football game I couldn't care less about? Woot woot for alternative television, and another woot for puppies!

Not that it excuses this, but some people as a result of their professions are trained to think in a highly logical, deliberately unemotional way. I have to think that this was probably innocent enough, even though it was insensitive. Rather than punishing the guy, maybe some sensitivity training is in order?

Ugh, yes. So much this.

The twist? It was a gay wedding, and it was all men involved.

I was recently at a wedding where the former husband was the person walking them down the isle. It's great that they're still that close, but I still found it a bit weird.

In regards to AJ mentoring Justin Bieber, this sounds like a great idea! Because if we learned anything from the Miley-Sinead fiasco, it's that young super-rich pop stars love when former pop stars reach out and offer to help them by talking smack about them in public.

Just a thought… if you really wanted to reach…

My husband stopped on the side of the road today to chew out a guy who was selling puppies out of the back of his truck. He gave him the whole lecture about how you should be screening owners, ensuring your puppies are spayed and neutered, and if you can't give them that you should give them to a rescue who can. He…

Yeah I don't have time for childish garbage like that. I'll wait a bit and chock it up to kinja (I've heard it's glitchy), but if I stay in the grey, I'm out of here. If we can't even have a legitimate debate (I was never rude, didn't insult anyone, simply noted my perception of things), then I'll have lost a lot of…

Haha, I didn't think calling out Beyoncé on her trashy performance was enough to piss off a whole group of people, but hey. I wasn't disrespectful to anyone, and I think I asked honest questions about the way I perceive things. If you don't like it, that's fine. If you take it personally, that's no one's fault but…

Yeah I don't know what the hell. Seems I'm banished to the greys now. Must have pissed someone off.

Just testing here… can't find my last post and when I click on it through the replies it seems to be grey? I haven't been grey in forever.. what gives?

I'm just going to re-post what I did to someone else. Miley is a kid - I am actually less bothered by her shaking her ass and acting like an idiot than I am by this. If for no other reason than Beyoncé is a grown woman with a child and a huge following of feminist supporters… maybe I just expected better of her? Why…

I don't know. Miley is a kid - I am actually less bothered by her shaking her ass and acting like an idiot than I am by this. If for no other reason than Beyoncé is a grown woman with a child and a huge following of feminist supporters… maybe I just expected better of her? Why can her husband be in a nice suit and…

Yeah you didn't need the full disclosure… if you can't see that they're doing the exact same thing you're obviously blinded by Beyoncé love.

Ok, honest question about the cultural appropriation, because the argument I've heard seems to fail and I'd really like an explanation. This is the argument as I understand it: Miley is guilty of cultural appropriation because she's a rich white girl appropriating a dance developed by impoverished black girls. …

Someone please explain to me… why is it trashy when Miley does it, but when Beyoncé does it it's hot, fun, and playful? Is it because her husband is in the vicinity? I just don't get it.

I respectfully disagree. While I'm a firm believer in 'blame the cheater' not the person he's cheating on you with, that doesn't mean the person aiding and abetting is free of fault. While I get that women who have relationships with married men often do so from a place of deep-seated insecurity, at some point you…

Well, that doesn't really seem like you're the kind of person I'm talking about then. If he lies, that's no reflection on you (although if it was me I would be questioning why it is this keeps happening, if it's happened more than once). That being said, once you found out he was lying, did you ever stay with him? …

While I generally try not to judge, and I know there are exceptions to every situation, I just don't know if I could be friends with someone who was knowingly in a relationship with a married man. Probably for the same reasons I couldn't be with a man who had ever cheated on me (or had a history of cheating). I need…