I wasn’t concern-trolling in my last paragraph. I’ve been in that situation. No, I haven’t been outright DISGUSTING (my hygiene has never been stinky/gross; I don’t force people to look at nasty parts of my anatomy like my bare feet or armpits), but sometimes - dude, clean sweatpants/leggings and a hoodie is the best…

Okay, I realize I’m being a bit nit-picky, but what in the world is “In Asia this is not a thing” supposed to mean? That’s a ton of countries and they do NOT all behave the same.

Why does this bother you so much? (and I’m genuinely asking you and asking you to think about it)

Passenger in seat in front deserves to roast in hell. (I mean, so does creepy guy, but that’s a given).

You clarifying that it is a wizzard hat has made me fall in love with you, just FYI thought you should know.

Oh, it's an active habit.

Let’s be best friends!

How “tucked” is your chin/head supposed to be? It seems impossible to do if you *really* tuck your chin into your chest/drop it on your chest, but in the video he seems to be barely tucked (but I don’t know if that’s so he can keep eye contact and speak clearly)

HOW HAS NO ONE STARRED THIS

“I have the ability to solve THE VERY PROBLEM that I describe! But what’s the point of speaking up if people will just point out that I am very bad at solving said problem?!”

That's a lovely sentiment and you sound like a wonderful person.

Am I the only one alone in thinking that if you have the energy/ability to fuck after your workout, your workout was not hard enough?

That’s why I said people should read the book and my paraphrase was criminally brief. In the examples and scenarios given in the book, the women want to have sex with their partners but sometimes feel “off” that they can’t be instantly turned on or don’t seem to randomly want sex (the book also has examples of women…

I had an experience in that same ‘gray’ area and it wasn’t until I told my male friend, years later, and he was like yeah, that’s rape (he also contends that almost all men have raped a woman, b/c of gray areas like these). But I could never say that “I was raped” because - yeah, it seems so tame compared to a lot…

I would highly disagree. There are tons of women who have lived through very abusive households where the answer to “What will happen if I say no?” is 1. physical abuse 2. emotional abuse 3. neglect (parent says if you want to be that way, then no food/love/etc.). The answer is very rarely “What will happen is you…

I highly recommend the book “Come As You Are” by Emily Nagoski. It’s too much to summarize here, but I do believe if you read it it will help you a lot. To paraphrase VERY VERY VERY briefly:

Or smugly married forever with a FB loaded full of love my husband, love my life, love my kids, this what a real woman looks like, etc.

They get pregnant because he can’t get the condom on fast enough and she yells “JUST DO IT ALREADY” (or something) and he thinks it means to just discard the condom and put his peen in her. Because...that makes sense. Instead of the very logical “just put the condom on, already”

Someone once said that possibly one of the reasons they dress like old ladies is because they were sexualized so young.

“I didn’t choke her - I was just putting my hands on her to tell her to stop” - My dad, after he tried to strangle me.