I'm working on it! :) I just need to stop being a hermit and get back into the BDSM crowd in the little town I live in and hopefully they'll be some new faces there. :)

Me too! It feels right. The color name, not the dreck that is the movie or book...I write better BDSM stories and they aren't very good.

I never used too, I'm as regular as the energizer bunny most of my life, orgasm-wise anyway at least once a day. After being diagnosed 6 years ago with OCD/Depression/Anxiety I've been on Zoloft, which didn't kill my libido but ceased my orgasms. I halved my meds about a year ago and I have my libdo back, yea!

That's a good way to think about it, part of her really identifies with it I think, even though they aren't the most observant church-y people. Congrats fellow heathen!

Hugs! It's ok if you are or aren't, it's no one's business but yours.

Lucky you! I've never really been able to relax with a guy enough to have an orgasm during any sexual stuff. By myself however game on!

That's one reason I make a point to talk about my OCD/Anxiety/Depression/Migraines because it demystifies mental illness and makes it more 'normal' (whatever that is). Being honest is important.

I don't know if this'll help or make it worse but sometimes Depression Comix and Hyperbole and a Half have strips about it that make me laugh and have helped me get over rough patches.

Hugs! I have Chronic Migraine and the last few years I've been going through up-and-down phases, and it's so hard. Luckily I found some meds that help, but it can be tough going.

Ditto, ditto. I'm a very happy waaaay lapsed Catholic, but mom just won't let go. I keep telling her it's the religion, not them, I'm getting rid of, but whatever. :)

Making up stories in church was always the best way to pass the time. That, and figuring out how long it was until doughnut time. :)

Making up stories in church was always the best way to pass the time. That, and figuring out how long it was until doughnut time. :)

Making up stories in church was always the best way to pass the time. That, and figuring out how long it was until doughnut time. :)

Making up stories in church was always the best way to pass the time. That, and figuring out how long it was until doughnut time. :)

Making up stories in church was always the best way to pass the time. That, and figuring out how long it was until doughnut time. :)

Making up stories in church was always the best way to pass the time. That, and figuring out how long it was until doughnut time. :)

I actually do commit self-flagellation, in a BDSM-y way. I wonder if that counts as penance for along-lapsed Catholic?! :) My now UU/Pagan/Quaker beliefs are o.k. with it so I think this Pope would be awesome with it too.

I like this Pope so much I might go to a mass if he were there. 18 years Sober-non-Catholic, been Pagan/Agnoistic/UU (or if Christians ask) I'm Quaker (which is generally pretty true).

I've wondered that too in some way, if they wanted to the 'first' in so many ways, not just physically.

Maybe but I like her red dress and shoes! I'm enjoying the look of him in tails and purple tie. :)