A couple months ago, after seeing my abusive ex at a show we were at, I told my husband about his raping me almost 20 years ago. It was the first— and only— time I had said the words outloud. I have been with my husband for over 15 years. Hell, it took me over a decade to even admit to myself that what happened with…

wait... so you get 15 years for lying about being shot by a black man.... but paid vacation for shooting one?

A United States senator comes out and flatly says he will not listen to the people he’s supposed to be representing, without any fear of consequences. A sitting president holds rallies and calls supporters of sexual assault victims “evil”. A Supreme Court nominee promises a straight up political war, with plenty of…

Eh, I may have tone-policed the article a little, but they’re not wrong on the substance. It’s a pain to recognize, but one of the biggest obstacles to actually holding “elites” in our society accountable for their actions is that other elites insist that decorum and circumspection in how you talk to an elite matters…

One of the most horrifying stories I can think of along those lines is what happened to Konerak Sinthasomphone, a 14-year-old Laotian boy who was killed by Jeffrey Dahmer. He escaped Dahmer after having been drugged and tortured, ran into the street naked and bleeding, then when people called 911 and the police came, D…

He obviously knew this shit was going to pour out because they were prepared for some of it. He could have gotten out in front of, it or at least diminished the blow but just owning up to being a drunken frat boy. He could have gently denied the assault accusation by saying he doesn’t remember anything like that,…

All black.... Wait. MOST Black lesbians are fairly bougie. We embrace that shit AAAANNDDD prepare for our weddings to be as well.

So, Kavanaugh drank a huge amount when he was young. (Perhaps not only when he was young, but we’ll go with this for now.)

So, it’s becoming more and more clear that he lied his way through his confirmation hearing. Most Republican Senators won’t care, of course.

I don’t know what the straights are doing, but let me tell you something, the black lesbians of Atlanta are BALLING OUT OF CONTROL!!!! My cousin married her girlfriend and it was LIT!!! Not only was the space super bougie with ornate imported from Denmark foliage, but she had a open bar all night, that had liquor. And…

Keenan is a good celebrity.

All That was my SHIT. And Are You Afraid of the Dark?, of course.

Watched this interview this morning, two things -

I’m trying to wrap my head around letting parents sell property to pay for my wedding. Call me crazy but I would have asked for that part of the property instead, as a wedding gift, and eloped.

It’s not what you spend, it’s what you can afford. A $10,000 wedding is crazy if you have to max out your credit cards to pay for it. A $50,000+ wedding is not a big deal if you have the cash on hand.

Eh, that kind of lead time wouldn’t be unheard of, especially if it was another source who had been contacted for the article and not the New Yorker itself who tipped off Kavanagh’s team.

She’s shortening your user name. :)

Outkast is stupid good and that’s why most of their stuff was an instant classic. Da Art of Storytellin, Rosa Parks, the title track, Spottie. All fire off this one album that doesn’t age.

Call me an old head but when I look at what else going on, damn. Missy Elliott with Timbaland production and Bad Boy and Aftermath…

How was her doing a sex scene in an entirely different project any of Cosby’s fucking business?

Lisa Bonet ate no basil